Why do some people tell you a story instead of giving you a direct answer?

Question

Do you find it helpful to hear a story or do you prefer a direct answer?

Answer 1

I prefer direct answers to direct questions.

However, as there are almost always mitigating circumstances, many people feel the need to "clarify" their answers with long recounts.

Depending on how accurate/pertinent/timely/etc. the information they impart is, I either ask them to stick to the question at hand or listen to their story.

Answer 2

I prefer direct answers, but I guess people just tell a story because a need to be heard or a need to socialize. Anyway, I end up listening the story

Answer 3

I prefer a direct and a true answer.
Well, some people tell u a story instead of the answer b/c they don't know the answer or they don't wanna tell it.

Answer 4

The stories come as a result of the fact that there are a lot of people out there who can't handle a direct answer. Sometimes people think that they want a direct answer but really. they can't handle it and so they attack the answerer, so, sometimes the story is the better way to go and let the asker draw their own conclusions

Answer 5

I prefer the direct answer but the story behind it helps get the full grasp.

Answer 6

There may not be a direct answer to your question. That's why they tell you a story, of how they overcame the problem. This gives you food for thought and you can arrive at the answer that is right for you and your situation.

Answer 7

I'm one who likes to give a so called story. quite often a short direct answer isn't what's required. In any case isn't it better to get an example so there's no confusion when a question needs a complicated answer.

Answer 8

Depends on the situation. Sometimes they don't know how to think about their experience, sum it up and pass on what they learned with a succinct answer, so they tell you the entire thing. Sometimes they think if they tell you the short answer you'll question it, their source or whatever. If someone is questioned alot, they just get used to telling the whole thing. And for some it's about who they are, their family or whatever. It's possible that's how they were raised or something.

Answer 9

Some people answer with stories because they think in stories, and don't realize that not everyone else does. Professional communicators are aware of these differences in style of communication and thinking, but most people aren't.

Answer 10

I like to hear direct answers. I get bored through their story. But unfortunately I tell stories, not because I want to, but I get sidetracked with little details. And my stories suck- hence they get bored.