is this stuff really considered a sin?

Question

a while ago i had gone to a church seminar and they were talking about sex and relegion. saying that it is wrong fo you and your husband/wife to do anything besides missionary style intercourse...is this really true? what are your views on this? any pastors out there?

i guess i didnt make myself too clear...i meant like, anal, oral, all that kinds of stuff

Answer 1

I hope you're trolling.... the bible sure doesn't say that.

Answer 2

Wow,
Now that is something I've never heard of. What you were told was someone opinion not fact nore written anywhere in the bible. There have actually been some arguements about the Church's stance on oral and anal sex also. But straight vagina to penis sex can and should be enjoyed in a variety of positions. In fact it has been shown by many scientific studies that early man procreated much the same way all other mammals do DOGGY STYLE so how can it be wrong?

Answer 3

I believe sex within marriage is a beautiful gift given to mankind by God to be enjoyed man with woman.. To be enjoyed in an atmosphere of love towards on another. Also keeping the marriage bed Pure is so important. What goes on within the bedroom is between the couple and God. Take a look at the Book in the Bible called Song of Solomon "Love " is the keyword in the song presenting the passionate desire between Husband and Wife.
I Don't know what is meant by Missionary style intercourse !!
But I do know about Loving Sexual enjoyment with my loving husband. with trust and complete comittment one to each other. LOVE IS.
hope this helps. Den J.

Answer 4

Go get the DVD from any video store. It's about the "Sex Doctor" of the latter 50's into the 60's. WATCH IT ! It's the only sensable guide on sex out there. He is well know, started out by doing research and study on migration of insects.

Bottom line, your married? What ever two concenting partners agree to, and find enjoyable... GO FOR IT ! There are no true guidelines to sexual acceptance... it's all up to the couple. JUST GO GET THE DVD, this WILL make sense.

Answer 5

The term 'missionary position' came in to use much later than the practice of Christianity.One theory is that it was used by white missionaries who went to Africa.Being a wild country and due to lack of easy availability of proper beds,this position was found to be the best under the circumstances.Except for the name,it has nothing to do with Christianity.You may like to educate your church functionaries suitably.

Answer 6

joined together as one by God>> its all good

um take that seminar info and give it to your pastor. cause it should be brought to the attention of supervisors of that seminar the teacher was not right and should not teach wrongly. everyone should know to find it for yourself in the word and that person should make that clear to the students

Answer 7

I would have asked them to justify that by the text, in essence, show me in the Scriptures where is says that, otherwise, it is just someones opinion. That goes for anything that someone tells you concerning spiritual matters or matters of faith, if they can't back it with Scripture, it is an opinion.

Heb 13:4 Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge fornicators and adulterers.

Answer 8

I agree with BrotherMichael..Never heard of that before either, and I really think it is wrong for them saying such a thing, and am not sure I would go back there.

Answer 9

what does the Bible say about it. not to have unatural sex. A man and his wife should come together often so they are not tempted, you should not bring anything unatural into this such as toys

Answer 10

I have a feeling that the "guy" who came up with that idea had some impotence issues.

Answer 11

Don't go to any more of these seminars...run away as fast as you can!