no i dont care if i get sick, or whatever... i just found out my husband cheated on me. twice ( so he sez) and i cannot sleep,i cannot eat , i cant not function...
2007-07-10 02:52:13 · 20 answers · asked by jessnclh 3 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
I'm sorry to hear of this. But i think how much weight you loose is not the big issue here. Talk to someone about this and get your feelings out. Do what you have to to get through this. I will be praying for you!
2007-07-10 02:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your husband is gonna cheat on your whether you are thin or fat. Take a hard look and figure out is this guy worth getting sick over. Not only that, you will not lose anything. Haven't you read up on the best advise of losing weight? Eating 6-7 small meals a day will allow you to lose weight more than starving yourself. When your body thinks that you are starving and your are not intaking food, your body will store the fat your currently have. So you will lose nothing but water and the water will come back as soon as you start eating again. Why would you want to stay with someone that has cheated on you twice? You deserve better!!
2007-07-10 02:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by Hello to You! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Now that I have seen your entire series of questions, I understand better. ALL DEPRESSION IS CAUSED BY A CHEMICAL IMBALANCE. If you run low on magnesium you will become suicidal, there is actually nothing mysterious or unexplained about it, people just make the mistake of believing that depression is somehow created by social circumstances alone, the truth is, you can live a perfectly happy life, but if you don't eat right and develop dietary defieciencies that aren't corrected you can become depressed/suicidal. You see it is an illusion of logic, a misunderstanding by everyone who suffers depression that their messed up lives are the only cause of their inability to cope. No matter how bad your life becomes, if you eat properly and get all the nutrition your body needs you can cope with whatever happens, and in your case, the PPD is definitely caused by your body being drained of the essential nutrients due to your pregnancy. You must help yourself, if you really want to start feeling better, buy a juice extractor and immediately start with 10 oz of extract of granny smith apples, beets, broccoli, carrots, cucumbers, celery, parsley, spinach and roma tomatos, twice daily for about a month. Do not try to extract more than you can consume at one time, there are fragile enzymes in these juices that completely deteriorate after about two hours, and the B vitamins are very good for your stress control. Get well Dear, your children need you to be healthy.
2007-07-10 06:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by james p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do u wana lose weight at this point in time when your marraige is on the rocks??? try and resolve the matter first. As for not eating for a few days, well that will not really lead to major weight loss but will definitely lead you to the hospital for drips due to weakness. Now you can decide whether you wana eat and be healthy and strong to resolve your problems with your husband or you want to land up in a hospital and/or in bed and be lonely and low with bad health. Your mind is not well as it is, due to the issues in your marraige and instead of trying to solve things and reduce the troubles for you, you wana add to it by making yourself feel physically ill too??? That sure is not a good thing to do at this point in time. First things first...... resolve your marital issues and then to divert your mind of all the grief and trouble that you have gone through while resolving and mending your marraige, join a gym and get on to some kind of diet. Till you dont solve all your issues, try and keep fit and healthy coz you gonna need all the strength - physical and mental for a good and proper handling of the issues. Take care of yourself and all the best !!!!
2007-07-10 03:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey woman, don't do that to yourself. You shouldn't hurt yourself because of him, he's a scumbag. You will lose weight temporarily because your body will be malnourished during the fasting. If you want to get him back, and this is awful, this is what I recommend; and it's effective.
Give his friend, acquaintance or co-worker a blow.job and take pictures from your phone or digital camera and then email him the pics. Don't feel guilty, because his girl on the side was blowin' him. This will level the playing field. If you can't bring yourself to do this, then leave him and "take him to the cleaners." Ask, for alimony, the house, the car, assets and even the *******' dog. Hit him in the pockets, that'll hurt too. Sorry for you.
2007-07-10 03:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by michael s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you don't eat your body goes into starvation mode. When you begin eating again, all of the food you consume is stored in your fat cells as the body's defense in case it should go through that kind of shock again.
If you're thinking that losing weight will keep him from cheating on you, it won't. There are likely some problems in the marriage which need to be addressed and perhaps the two of you can seek counseling. Good luck, I'm sure you're in a lot of emotional turmoil right now.
2007-07-10 02:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by Beth 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It really depends on the person. Yes, you will lose weight.. When people say 'not eating will make you gain weight' they mean that it will make you go into starvation mode, so your body will be eating your body fat.. And when you try to switch back to a healthy diet THATS when you'll probably be gaining the weight, because your body will take in all that it can from being in starvation mode. Just clearing things up, this is your choice and your body.
2007-07-10 02:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your about to loose alot. Time to get rid of the cheater. How much does he weight? Don't let his cheating make you sick. That puts who ever he cheated with in the driver seat and you on the floor mat. Looks like you have a baby. Refocus on her and get some sleep. Will keep you up to date on healthy handles for cheating husbands.
2007-07-10 03:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by Justina B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will not lose enough weight to show you are suffering. Actually, unless you starve yourself for years, you will hold and increase your weight because your body will store anything you do eat.
Go see your doctor for a temperory fix, and get counselling to learn to cope long term. I feel sorry for you - but your cheating husband is not worth you hurting yourself over. You will recover and be able to make sensible decisions regarding your future with him. Make yourself keep your shoulders back and chin up. You have a lot of understanding support from this site. Even though we can't reach you personally there are many who care.
2007-07-10 02:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont let it drag you down and dont let your self-esteem go down because of it, hey there are a lot of wanderfull people out there just waiting to meet some one like you, if he loved you he would never have cheated. i love my wife more than any thing in the world and i would never do anything to hurt her,take him for what he is worth and tell him to hit the road,ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT. come on hun get happy and go find another man a GOOD MAN....... good luck
2007-07-10 03:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by robert m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋