I'm with someone who is a bit older then me when we are having sex something i get paranoid because i know he's had sex with more people then i have and something i think maybe he's been with someone who can do it better then me he said I'm mad even thinking that do any one think i am
2007-07-10 00:56:09 · 37 answers · asked by clover 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you were terrible, he wouldn't be having sex with you more that once. It's about the feelings you have for each other that counts...not who has bagged more in the sack. Don't keep score. If he was with someone that was better than you, don't you think he'd be with that person? Don't worry about these things, just live in the moment, and enjoy! Worrying is like a rocking chair.....it gives you something to do for a while, but it gets you nowhere.
2007-07-10 01:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by Victoria G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experience is not that important...having fun is. If you get hung up on paranoia then you will not enjoy the experience as much. Just let go and communicate with each other to let each other know what you like and dislike. That is the only way to fully enjoy the experience together. Forget about anyone else and you will both have even more fulfilling times together.
2007-07-10 04:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by Chelsea Shrimper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your being reasonable. I am in the same situation as you. He was my first and I wasn't his so i get a little paranoid about how bad I am. But it isn't how good or bad you are, I think it's about the love. If you love each (which I'm sure you do) then who cares about how much experience he might have compared to you. Just enjoy having sex with the one you love, don't think so much.
2007-07-10 01:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by Łøνε-α-Łøт 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the problem w/ being muliples ~ you tend to have a comparative benchmark. I don't care what they say (that is true, wether they believe it or not).
That is why having sex in marriage is so much better - because there is a feeling and element of exclusivity (you have something that nobody else in the world has).
I never believe that until I got married.
2007-07-10 01:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol no way. Sex is 100% different with each new lover. Just work on learning from each other. Make sure to keep the lines of communication open. Say stuff like "Does that feel good? Do you like that baby?" And tell him what feels good with you.
2007-07-10 01:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by Jeannette B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the same in all relationships, what you have to remember is that it's not about him and the others he's been with or you and who you've been with... It's now about you two! You should talk about it, even if it is embrassing! Just drop hits as to what you like being done to you in the bedroom...
Some guys like it when you take charge and make them do things or guide there hands to places...
Try not to think about past relationships and concentrate on the here and now! Enjoy yourself!
Good Luck
2007-07-10 01:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by brit_plod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is aware of your age he should know u should had less experience then him..Actually u don't have to think u are less experience then his ex at least u are much pure then them and u should be happy of...If u still cannot cope with a wonderful sex life i suggest u can learn some from Po*n...
2007-07-10 01:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by *Dolly girl* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like anything else, "practice makes perfect". The more you have it, the more experience you will gain. The biggest thing is paying attention to body signals. When your doing something and get a good response from your partner, remember it, and expand on it. When in doubt, it doesn't hurt for you to ask him if he likes it or not.
2007-07-10 01:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. If your partner loves you then it doesn't matter how you are in bed. The people from his past shouldn't seem like competition to you now, because they will stay in the past. And if you were'nt good then he wouldn't keep sleeping with you. You are not mad for thinking he has been with someone better, we all have our little worries its in our natures. He will probably worry about simillar things.
2007-07-10 01:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by catherine_sheppard88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that experience is that important, the important is 2 feel that man he's body 2 enjoy and b free 2 do anything u feel like doing with him and on him ..and u will c he will love having sex with u...just believe in yourself and that u can be the best..
2007-07-10 01:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by baby face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋