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Question

hey guys~

im in the weddings section so i assume that you guys are adults~ i just wanna ask does one here who been in love in 17 (by the way she is 16 and i love her to bits) then eventually getting married? is it possible? what does wedding feel like?why you so sure you wanna get married to your love?

Answer 1

We are here alll adults, you are right... so go with your childish questions elsewhere.

To answer your question:

You are too young, stay in school and grow up.

Good luck

Answer 2

Well, being 17, you are sort of a young couple to get married. It is possible though, but have you thought of what happens after your marriage? Before you make any decisions of marriage, you need a good job, a house you know you can come back to after your honeymoon, and money for the wedding even. Weddings are not cheap.

If you guys are still in school, then of course, marriage surely isn't a good option. It would be best if you finished college and grabbed a nice job.

Weddings feel like...well...they're one of the most memorable moments in your life, maybe "the" most memorable. Weddings bind two people together, "Till death do us part." When you marry your girl, you two will be together your whole life. When you think about it, it's not so bad. But the wedding...you get all nervous and bottled up. Don't be. If you decide to wed, then that would mean your mind has been made up.

When you spend time with your love, it makes you wanna live moments like it forever. Marriage can give you that. You're sure you wanna get married when you wanna spend your life with her, when you wanna be more than someone she can lean on.

Answer 3

well it is very possible... I was 14 years old and my now- fiance was 15 when we started dating... It has been 6 years now and we are engaged to be married next year.

We have also lived together for the last 2 years while he is finishing up his degree and I am a working Massage Therapist. Living together is a great test for your relationship.

Sometimes high school realtionships work and sometimes they dont it depends on the people.. I would recomment waiting until your both go off to college and see if you can hadle the stresses of not seeing eachother every day. I have had great friends that dated for 4 years in high school and once they went off to school they broke it off ebcause they found "something" else out there for them... It happens.. I would also say that dont get married becuase you feel like it is the next thing to do.... it should be a big step that you are ready to take... after all divorce really never should be an option.....good luck

Answer 4

I have been head over hees in love with several guys since I was 16/17 years old. At that moment in time, each of them seemed like the one. Looking back, I had NO IDEA what love was.

I am now 33 and marrying a man I actually have known since I was 17. But we would have been FOOLS to get married back then. We lived FULL SINGLE ADULT lives first, before settling down with anyone. We each went our separate ways for many years. But as they say, if it was meant to be, it will happen when the time is right. Don't rush things.

Answer 5

Yeah, I'd definitely date for a long time. A year can mean a lot at that age. I'm only 20 and I feel decades older than when I was 17.
Even if you love each other down to the gluons holding your atoms together, I'd recommend you get to know each other before you do anything permanent. At the age of 17, hardly any person truly even knows himself.
My plan is to live with my fellow for about five years before I even consider marriage.

Answer 6

date first then marriage. you are too young what about money? most marriages break up before 1 yr due to lack of funds this is the #1 cause marriages break up where will u live? parents bad idea. have kids not now its very hard raising a child since u are a child. dont rush things u have your whole life ahead of u education is impt for a good job do u want to be a porter the rest of your life? not a glamorous job for remedial pay. most places wont rent to u unless youre 18 most decent jobs u have to have education and be atleast 18 if u date youll know in your heart if shes the right one if not atleast u didnt throw your life away.

Answer 7

wait till both of you have gotten through high school and college before even thinking about marriage...at lot of change goes on between now and the end of college....trust me on this. I am 25 and who I though I'd marry in high school and in college is not the same guy I am marrying on Saturday. You'll change, she'll change....and after those changes if you want to be together still then great! But hold off on asking her to commit to to until then. It's not fair to either of you to commit to someone else at such a young age.

Answer 8

many people on here will say your too young. and right now to get married without parents permission yeah probably. but i know for a fact, that you can find love in high school.

me and my now fiancee met in jr. high. dated for about 5 months, his step dad didnt like me so we broke up for about 3 yrs. but then we started dating my senior yr. sept. 8th, 2004( i graduated in may of 2005) and he proposed in the end of december of 2005. we have since been together for 2 yrs, and 10 months. not getting married until june 2009.

just date for a year or two, see how it goes, once your 18 if you still love eachother, then think of proposing to her. theres nothing wrong with a long engagement.

just because your young doesnt mean that you cant find love, but before you get married, just make sure that its true love. :)

best wishes to you.

Answer 9

No job, no home, not enough education, unable to support yourself, let alone a young lady AND future children. SLOW DOWN. It's wonderful being married, but it takes commitment. You have to take the bad along with the good times. You'll wonder at times why you did it and was it worth it.

Take you time. If it's meant to be, it will be. You are young and have plenty of time. Good luck

Answer 10

vefore hand its nerve wracking becuase you feel just wracked. You're tying your life to some1 (in theory, there are anullments and divorces) but the minute you say I Do, its very nice and calming. If after about 6 hours after I do's have been said and you still worry, drink. If you are still worried by the end of the next day, get an anullment.

Answer 11

There is no law in "Love" but there are so many things in wedding and marriage. Take more time to find, is she really perfect or not.