I feel like I should be somewhere else living a different life. Don't tell me that I need to see a councelor because I've been there and done that. Can someone tell me why I feel so disconnected?
2007-07-09 23:21:38 · 7 answers · asked by JUDY F 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Hmmm, I've felt like this for years and it's not like I haven't tried being connected and involved. I just feel like I am misplaced and generally different from other people, in the way I feel and think. I was always surrounded by people so I started thinking 'how important is it for me to have people around me that I didn't connect with?'. My answer came to me a long while later and I decided that it's not so important for me to have people around me...it is more important for me to connect with 'me', so I started finding out all about me and loving me unconditionally and really connect with myself. And you know, I feel more sure of who I am and where I want to be in the future.
I am not sure if you have some medical condition or some serious issue that can be fixed by medication or months/years of therapy...but for me, inward journey helped me a great deal. I still do not feel I "belong" but in my heart, body and in my presence, I feel I belong.
2007-07-10 00:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well judy i have felt dissconnected from people my entire life including my family but i have been diagnosed as mentally unwell so to speak if you have problems feeling emotions or you mimick emotions in order to fit in with the social group around you these are certain indicative signs of a sociopatic personality not to say that you are twisted or anything just saying that if you dont have base love -hate emotions for your parents siblings just a sign of things to come but hey dont feel bad about this emotions are usually a burden from what ive seen displayed by people and cause a great deal of suffering consider yourself blessed, but on the other hand if you do feel genuine love for your family then your really not dissconnected your just a malcontent but thats just aqua teen hunger forces take on ther situation......................yours truel y oursmaster shake
2007-07-09 23:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I don't get on with my family like the word family dictates! They're just people who happened to live in my house growing up and my parents are just people who happened to make a poor choice about contraceptives and birth control.
Only you can tell yourself why you feel so disconnected. Even the best psychotherapist in the world couldn't tell you why you are you without your participation. You need to look inside yourself and explore your feelings.
2007-07-09 23:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by qwertatious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may feel disconnected due to a disinterest in what is going on around you.
I suggest a sight seeing trip.....open yourself to the world.
Or, perhaps, you just need new people around to tell you that you suck in the spirit of friendship.
You suck. And I think you are awfully nice.
Good Luck and Goddess Bless.
2007-07-09 23:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by earthcaress 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
o yea Judy i know what ur talking about like they dont know the real u and u dont want to try.
2007-07-10 11:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, all the time..I was always so much like my dad, and it seems that everyone else wasn't..so I was always the black sheep of thefamily..I just learned to put up with them and love them all just the same
2007-07-10 00:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 6⤋
oh another Misfit, Outcast, Vagabond, welcome
2007-07-09 23:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋