you know a girl who you are honest with and have a thing for. They are comming to visit you for some birthday feista. you wanna hang out and chill as friends but not much more because youboth haven't seen eachother almost two years. She hasn't gotten over you and and feels strong about her feelings of love for you. Would you lie to her or go with the truth about your feelings about remaining friends?
2007-07-09 21:45:37 · 14 answers · asked by white trash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think i would tell the truth to her. if that hurts her. sorry. but love just cant be directed.
2007-07-09 21:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by ramzo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good question. it depends on if we had been through a proper break up. if we had broken up two years previous either one if not both of us could have moved on, found new lovers. however if i were still single i'd maybe paly it cool and pretend i wanted nothing more than friends if that is what the woman in question had asked of me. To force the issue would be arrogant and rude.
however if she was upfront when we meet again for the first time after those two years (if i were single) i would want her to tell me upfront that she was still in love with me and she wanted to rekindle the romance between us. if i was still in love with her then i would jump at the chance to get back with her, however taking it slowly. If i were no longer in love with her then i'd be a man about it and tell her. I know it may hurt her emotionally rather that than lead her on which may hurt her more deeply later on. and i'd still probably remain friends.
Though to be fair this scenario will never happen in my life. if this is a reality for you just be honest and open tell the guy how you feel. the worst he can do is say he is not interested.
good luck.
2007-07-09 21:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two years is a big time, therefore one has to share the changes in friendship circle with old friend. One must be always true to friend.
2007-07-09 21:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by deepak57 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
easily i'm a romatic kinda guy, i take issues incredibly uncomplicated and slowly and ya... i'd set out a romantic picnic on a scluded hill or somthing and it would be night with the celebs out and shining we could see the city and then we would consume and talk, then bypass see a action picture, we would cuddle and snuggle some what, then i woudl take you homestead and kiss u stable bye yet thats taken with me some adult males wanna intercourse on the 1st date.... :( they think of with their penises
2016-09-29 10:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by mcglothlen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id rather go with the truth, but to conclude things of not liking her in the future is being immature. maybe he is still uncertain about it, continue your friendship then when the time comes, you should confess.
2007-07-09 21:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by AutumnMemoirs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would treat her as a friend and a friend only. don't do anything that will give her a sign because that will probably make things worse. Eventually she will move on.
2007-07-09 21:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
honesty is the best policy tell the truth
2007-07-09 21:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by anastasia b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope..for me it's simple.
a liar will get cought sooner or later.
i'll tell the truth.
2007-07-09 21:51:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I Tel Lie
2007-07-09 21:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by jayakumar s 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only cowards lie . . . and guys who want a cheap thrill.
2007-07-09 21:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋