honeymoon......PLZ HELP?

Question

how can somebody know if her wife already had sex with some guy?
Also is it possible 4 the girl to know if her husband had sex before, during having sex with him?

Answer 1

It is a very annoying question. It is soooo bad to plough in the ashes. What is past is past. Anyway for your your understanding I will tell you something that I know.

The virginity of a girl can be tested by clinical investigation. But in this swift modern world that result is also not reliable. Conservatively a girl is considered as virgin if her hymen is in tact till her first night. But due to physical activities like sports, running, or weight lifting it can be ruptured automatically without girl's fault. Masturbation also will be a cause of breaking the hymen.

In case of a man, there is no scientific method to find out whether he had sex or not. But in order to give you some idea i will tell you my story. One week after my marriage, my wife asked me a question " have you had sexual relation with anybody before me", I said No. Then I asked her " Why you asked like that". Because your talking and doing does not match with that of a beginner.

So be careful. Women are more shroud in finding such kind of minute movements.

Answer 2

Well, if a girl hasnt had sex yet, and her hymen is intact and wasnt broken by some accident, then your husband will know you are a virgin because the hymen will tear. You cant know if your hubbie has had sex before you...you kinda have to believe whatever they tell you. I was the first for my hubbie, and I never would have thought that from the way he "performed" the first time. I had been married before and I thought he was a pro from how he did. Just enjoy each other, that's the best advice I can give. Good Luck!

Answer 3

Hey madam
seems your grammer to be checked how can it be HER WIFE.

SECOND you want to ensure that will hubby know if wife had sex before marriage . Is this you question or worry . It seems worry if you are getting married soon and you have had already sex with some guy or guys who were your b/f or lovers or just experiments with strangers. But one thing is sure you must have borken hymn and lost virginity . and now you may be feeling guilty for that or worried if your husband is also virginity Freak then your marriage will be in crisis. But what has happened can not be undone.

You can do one thing before marriage . if you are not engaged tell you would be hubby frankly that you are not virgin and he should not expect so from you . But You promise Love and Loyalty that may help you.

If you are engaged and not married try above formula and get out from your doubts , fear and guilt .

still you feel that your hubby is Indian Moralistic sufferring from virginity mania, better break the engagement and do not marry. save the trouble, money and long drawn court cases of divorce.

now if you want to take up your husbands viriginity thinking that you will settle the score by telling him that look you are also not virgin so I m. let us start happily. but you know India male are interested in Seeta of Satya Yuga. but they do not want to be Rama.
even if your hubby has played in lots of fields you do not expect your hubby to agree to your having played the fields

However generally speaking you can find that male has lost his virginity or not . it has one test and it is natural one.

a virile man , who has had forceful intercourse first time, will have broken his skin joined with prepuce if he is uncurcumcised. this is only test you can have but for veryfying that do you think you will dare to ask him to undress and check for yourself.

So this crazy thing needs tobe closed and forgotton in your own good

I have tried to explore all the possible options

you may think yourself where you fit and resolve the issue in your best interest.

Answer 4

I assume u trust your partner and asking this question only out of curiosity. No there is no sure way of knowing if husband had sex before, or the wife had sex before.

Answer 5

Sure man; u 2 will have the best of honeymoons..ha...ha...
However, your first answer is a split vaginal knot with an open hole. However, this also occurs for some undergoing strict exercises.
Your second answer is, if she's experienced, then YES.
If not experienced, certainly NO.
And the YES shall be an attribute to being accurate in all actions. So, if you want to fool her, act inaccurate for the first time.

Answer 6

Come on, don´t be a sick person!!
That´s really awful!!!
damn, nobody should care what had happen in the past of a person, the only important thing is the future...
Do you really want to spoil your marriage from the very start with your suspicious mind???
Be clever and enjoy your honeymoon...

Answer 7

hey,
there is way to know i'll tell u,
thing is that incase of male if he having sex at the first time to a girl and if its first time for the girl too as soon as the pennis enters into the vagina it seems to be very hard to enter & hence forth it will enter & will tear the hymen of the girl & some blood will be clotted out for both. Only if it is first sexual relationship. This what followed by the earlier cases by giving a white saree to the girl for the first nite........ if the blood clotts for female only she is virgin not the male.........

Answer 8

this does not sound like a honeymoon question, but a trust issue. people should be honest with their partners when asked.

but no, there is really no way to tell if a man is a virgin or not. typically virgin males do not last long the first few times, but that is really not much to go on.

Answer 9

Why do you think about such things? What ever character your wife might be bearing before marriage is nothing to do with. How best she is with you matters. The same thing will also applicable to you. Do not think unnecessary things and ultimately do not make your married life a hell, this is for enjoyment.

Answer 10

I implore you to leave these things in the PAST. IF you love and trust each other, this is all that matters now.

Let your marriage and honeymoon be the beginning of a new day and life together.