what would you do, it is very annoying please help me?
2007-07-09 16:29:23 · 14 answers · asked by ♥Desi♥ 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
If my brother aggrevated me to death, i would do nothing, because I would be dead. Then again I might come back and haunt him.
2007-07-09 16:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by hardcoredlw 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As a kid, I would have ignored him, or treated him badly.
But I think you should ask him, "Why are you doing XYZ?" XYZ being the SPECIFIC behavior that he is doing. You might be surprised at his answer.
Then again, being a little brother, he might not have any good answer.
Sometimes, if you pay him a little attention, he'll feel satisfied and won't bug you so much.
And maybe you could set up a codeword: When you say, "Stop it please," he really needs to stop it, but then there are some times you let him bug you.
And you know, there might be some things you are doing that aggravate him, so try to be forgiving.
(-: You have to admit, right now you are being a little bit of a drama queen. I mean, if you are typing on the computer, you are obviously not dead yet. So, try to tone it down on your end, too.
Good luck, and try to find some things the two of you can do together, that aren't aggravating to either one of you. Then you can have more private time.
2007-07-09 23:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by Madame M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times when someone aggravates us, it is coming from inside of us, the way we are thinking about what it means. Talk to your parents how aggrevated you are getting from him aggrevating you. Ask them to help you deal with the problem.
2007-07-09 23:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by Ikeg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you, nothing can be done about aggrevating brothers!! ugh. The only thing you can do is lock your door and ignore him, totally tune him out.
2007-07-09 23:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Golden's mom says she had six older brothers that all enjoyed aggravating her. One of them was especially difficult to deal with. She stayed away from him as much as she could, but he and his friends were always trying to bother her. Now that brother is her best friend and they are in contact with each other every day. Don't lose hope. It usually gets better as you get older and if it doesn't, it will still be easier to keep your distance once you are both on your own.
2007-07-09 23:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by golden sephiroth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he agrivated me to death, I wouldn't be able to answer this question.
What is the agrivation? What is your age difference? What would you like someone to do to you if the tables were turned? He wants attention ~ play with him a little. Then he might leave you alone the rest of the time.
2007-07-09 23:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by MELANIE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
play the same game and annoy him. It is called reverse Psycology. Try sending him on a quest to find proof of something that does not exist. Basically try to occupy him with something to get him away from you.
2007-07-09 23:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by KDII 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know my brother is the same way. he has beaten me before, for not opening a door. and i had like a huuuuge purple bruise that turned blue then yellow it was gross. he grabs my a$$. he's always in my room. and blahblah lol
i just live with it..
ive tried so many things.
and he probably just likes "bad" attention. like people yelling at him and stuff.
2007-07-09 23:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I use to be that brother...now we are grown up, and we love each other very much and are very close. It'll get better.
Hint - He is just trying to get attention.
2007-07-09 23:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by jas 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont have any brothers, but i have two little sisters that drive me bonkers. Just buy yourself a laptop, T.V. and lock yourself in your room. :-)
2007-07-09 23:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋