My whole life.. at times I feel it is a blessing, other times a curse, I have a foot fetish. From doing some research on the internet and seeing how girls treat their feet.. I know I'm not alone, but I am still nervous about telling girls I like about my fetish for fear that I will lose a valuable relationship, since they make think I'm weird. The pluses of letting someone I'm sexually attracted know about my fetish are obvious! :D What would you, on Yahoo Answers, recommend for how I should go about this? And if you are simply going to respond with "Foot Fetish.. ewwwww...", then please.. don't bother.. you wil be wealthy with points but terribly incompetent and unhelpful. Thanks in advance!
-PimpofMensa
2007-07-09 15:49:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Offer her a foot rub--all women want foot rubs. Then slowly start to get more intimate with her feet step by step, and if it starts to get too weird she will pull away or stop you. But if you just tell her about it she might be weirded out. Include your attention to her feet along with attention to every other part of her body and she will probably enjoy it and as you let her know how special they are to you if she likes you she may even be flattered. However, it is a holistic deal--it is everything all together, and if she feels like you are just focusing solely (great play on words, huh?) on her feet, she will be rightfully turned off.
2007-07-09 15:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by LaNell the Relationship Expert 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I agree with some of the others that you should start slowly by offering a foot rub and treaign her feet well. Maybe offer to paint her toenails? This way when/if you bring up your fetish she can see that it's not threatening or gross and there's a lot in it for her, namely heaps of relaxing foot attention.
I would say it would hurt your relationship if you kept this part of you a secret. This isn't too strange as far as fetishes go, and if your girl found out you were visiting escorts to take care of this on the side, then all trust would be destroyed. Besides, if she thinks you're a freak because of it, she may not be worth your time. Find a woman who appreciates a good foot rub, and good luck!
2007-07-09 16:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ahni 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Some girls are turned off by it, some are turned on, some don't care. I'm personally neither turned on nor turned off. But like EVERYTHING sexual, it's something sort of private and makes people uncomfortable if they hear about it too much, because sex is always a little bit taboo. I don't think it's wrong or dirty or perverted or anything to be ashamed of.
2016-04-01 06:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you assume ppl will be turned off by this? Personally, I would find that sexy... so don't worry so much about scaring women off. You don't even have to TELL someone you have a foot fetish, I'm sure she'll figure it out after awhile of being with you!
2007-07-09 16:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You name me one girl that doesn't like her feet rubbed. A girl would love this. A foot massage every time she wants one. She will be a lucky girl, lol. It is a common fetish. I wouldn't worry about this man.
2007-07-09 16:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by golsen2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by foot rubs-----then tell her when shes feeling it. I'd be prepared for questions on how is this going to protray its self? Do u cuddle shoes, drink out of shoes, eat shoes, rub feet where? Are shoes safe around u. Do u want to wear my shoes, what if I don't want my toes sucked? Or is athletes foot going to run u off. What if my feet don't ring ur bells, or if u get a snifff of other feet? do mens feet turn u on. dogs feet?
2007-07-09 15:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me pal, if you value you relationship any bit don't tell her. Some Women can't handle the truth.
I just posted on another question yesterday where a woman was disgusted her boyfriend shared his sexual fantasies with her. I think it will ruin their relationship because she's a typical sqeamish american woman.
You're better off hiring an escort for your fetish activities and keeping her in the dark if you want to keep your relationship
2007-07-09 15:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by flack vest 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
it is not a common fetish. i would get to know someone better. there is someone for everyone. and the right personwill think it is cute. if you treat her right.
just please dont act wierd around her .
talk to a counselor if it bothers u!
2007-07-11 02:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by tennessee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell them, and if you do say it calmly and get the other people more relaxed and prepare them for what your going to say so their not all "ew!!!" and such.
2007-07-09 15:55:25 · answer #9 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't tell just anyone that will spread it around, only tell your significant other.. she won't care, she'll just think it's cute.
2007-07-09 15:52:18 · answer #10 · answered by Blythe 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋