i liked this guy for a while and he liked me but nothing happened both shy. we talk once and a while and i asked him if he wanted to hang out and he just went off on me. now he is starting to be nice to me, trying to get my attention, starring and smiling at me but he wont say anything to me.why?
2007-07-09 15:34:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably was having a bad day, and after a night of comtemplation he realized that he missed a good opportunity to get to know you better. We sometimes say things we don't mean and act before we think, so don't hold it against him =P
2007-07-09 15:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels guilty?
I would be friends with him, but by no means should you date him right now! I don't know him or the whole story, but it's pretty abnormal for a guy to just "snap" & go off at a girl. That's a big red flag that there may be things wrong with this guy that you have no idea about. If that's what he does when you're just trying to hang with him, what's he capable of doing when the two of you have an actual fight? A lot of people think "Oh, he's not going to hurt me (mentally or physically), it's not going to happen to me", but it can.
It really does sound like he's sort of mental. The only guys I've known that have acted like that ended up being not only the worst boyfriends I've ever known, but they've usually ended up being the type to stalk a girl later or to take the breakup REALLY badly. (This comes from myself & from watching my friends & sis's exes.) Honey, my little sis's ex was similar to this guy & he ended up making a death threat against my mom b/c he thought she was keeping my sis from coming back to him.
Be friends, but do not be anything more. He has already shown that he is not good dating material & there is nothing you can do to change this.
2007-07-09 15:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time you asked him out he probably had a shock or sth. he probably never expected you to ask him out then so he didnt reply in a positive way.
but now since he has been given time to think about what happened, he's regretting not taking up your offer the other time. he probably realises he likes you and wants your attention again.
it's a lil strange. you might want to give it a rest for a little while and after a week or two, ask if he wants to go to the movies or something. he might be more ready to hang out with you now. good luck :)
2007-07-09 15:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by hiLdA a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a Guy when you talked to him at that moment he did not think of you in that way buy probably after he was thinking about it he can see you as a girl he would hang with,be careful he could just be trying to get you CZ he thinks your easy.I say ply hard to get don't pay him any mind.Act like you have moved on and when he trays to get together then don't jump at the chance and agin be careful guys act like they got all the problems in the world to get in to your pants.GOOD LUCK
2007-07-09 15:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by cozcozah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think he began to feel bad for what he had done. I think he may have snapped on you because he was taking out another problem he had on you. Maybe he was angry with something and took it out on you. He is being nice to you to make up for his outburst and he is probably very sorry.
2007-07-09 15:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by hearts101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just weird. Maybe he feels guilty that he over-reacted. Because he did. If he didn't want to go out with you he could have simply said no. I bet he after he calmed down he came to the same conclusion.
2007-07-09 15:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by You wish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants to ask you in a first place but why don't you hang out on him a little bit
2007-07-09 15:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by Lourielle D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seen like this young man had something on his mind,he problem had a fight with his parent are something ,as woman to woman I just be friend because if he was your boy friend he might hit you and them come back after he cool off and tell you he sorry, choose your friend and boy friend carefully you have one life to live be careful that would scared me to death good luck
2007-07-09 15:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe this has finally realized what he did and is truly sorry
or maybe he don't have anyone right now to spend time with and you did ask him so he figured it would be a good idea
think twice before going out with him if you don't feel comfortable
2007-07-09 15:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by Harini A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he liked you and still does, and he probably got really scared/nervous when you asked him to hang out. now he wants to get your attention, but he's probably too shy.
2007-07-09 15:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋