I'm skeptical about dating a Mexican, I have never dated one before, Would that work out! any of you have dated one and how was it like?
2007-07-09 15:29:23 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why must you classify personality and kindness on a racial perspective? That isnt good. Anyone has a chance with anyone regardless of the race
2007-07-09 15:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The mere fact that you are asking this question indicates that you should not date outside your race as you have not yet learned that people are not quantified by the color of the skin they were born into but by the content withinthat skin. The very fact that you say......".I'm skeptical about dating a Mexican, I have never dated one before, Would that work out! any of you have dated one and how was it like?" Indicates that you see people of different orgins as objects and not as people. A mexican is simply a person who was born in Mexico ....are you less of an individual person if you were born in Mexico than if you were born in New Jersey ? One cannot choose where their birth originated ...you should judge people by what they are inside and not where they come from. People are people and some people from everywhere are good and some are not .
2007-07-09 15:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you are being skeptical about dating someone because of their race, then I advise seeking a values and morals counselor. Just because he's Mexican doesn't mean he has the same organs and brains that any other race has. How would you feel if a Mexican or Asian guy met you, but were freaked out by you because your Caucasian? Now that's not fair is it?
2007-07-13 07:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by S S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you that naive or just plain young? Everyone is different and being Mexican is not different than any other race. Grow up and date him if you like him. If it doesn't work out, don't judge all Mexicans based on that one relationship. I say go for it if you can put that fact that he's Mexican out of you mind.
I'm married to an Native American and if that was even a thought before we started dating, I wouldn't have gotten the chance to have the wonderful life that I have. (BTW - I'm white - blonde, blue eyes)
2007-07-09 15:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by Just4kicks 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm dating a Mexican right now. Race shouldn't matter in my opinion. He's amazing and I've had other boyfriends who've been Mexican as well. So you might have a great experience, you might not. You won't know the answer to that just from his race.
2007-07-09 15:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by blacksails86 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Don't you guys just love it when people are being racist? Go out with him and get REAL WORLD EXPERIENCE, and if this Mexican guy doesn't work out, don't let it stop you from dating different Mexican guys, you can find a good one.
BD
2007-07-09 15:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by Black Dragon 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
open your eyes where is this world comming 2 ...a man is not defined by his race he is defined by his character .... u should be open to any race . like what u said u never dated one before so why should u be skeptical. don't u think u should go by your own experiences then others. who said you have to marry thats why it's called dating .. good luck
2007-07-09 15:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by tweety 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, uh gee. This is a pretty racist question. I have dated a mexican but it doesn't really count because it was for a few days, and it was a girl, you're talking about a guy. Don't judge him by his race, that's just wrong in my book. Judge him for who he is, and if you can only judge by what he looks like, then I'm so sorry you exist. Don't be an ***.
2007-07-09 15:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You should never date anyone you don't much about, so why don't you tell him you'd like to talk, on the phone, or somewhere, or let him know you'd like to get to know him better before dating, like with friends around and stuff, then, if he is nice, has things in common with you, and treats you really really good, then date him!
Is he from this country? not just looking for an easy way to get a green card? If he's already legal,then race would have nothing to do with it.
:)
2007-07-09 15:38:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Honey, nationality should have nothing to do with whether you date someone or not!! How can you say dated one? He's not some strange thing from another planet. He is a man and if he treats you wonderfully that is all that matters!
2007-07-09 15:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by Eternalsilence 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋