the guy i love has a commitment problem. should i go out with him anyway?

Question

he's dumped me three times, but just asked me out again. but despite his bad track record, he is a REALLY great guy, and i am TOTALLY in love with him.

Answer 1

yes.. i think u should go out with him again.. if that is the way u feel about him. & when the timing is right. he might just grow up a little bit... & make a commitment.

go get 'em tiger..

Answer 2

What is your definition of great guy? Aguy dumps you three times and each time he comes back. More important you take him back until he does it again/What is your problem; are not happy unless you are being abused?I suggest that before you go out with him again, you sit down and write what you want in a relationship , the qualities you want in that man. Then look at this guy and decide if he fits the bill.I am so certain your answer will be no .Please love and respect yourself enough to know that you deserve better than what you are currently getting.Don't be desperate and make your self a sex object who can be used anytime he wants.As long as you let him, he will continue to use and abuse you. You will be good to go to bed with but not good to have as a girlfriend. You can do better.

Answer 3

You may be in love with him, but it seems like you need to love yourself more. He constantly dumps you...There's your sign. What good could possibly come of that? The only reason he comes back to you is because you let him; and when he's had his fill, he bounces. Great marriage material! The man that loves you back is still out there, but, you won't find him messin' with this clown. You don't deserve this; Yes the sex may be good, but, without a COMMITTED relationship(which is what you really want, right?)what good is it?

Answer 4

Then you are TOTALLY asking for exactly what you TOTALLY will get. You should think inside yourself that you should be treated better. You will always get what you allow.