Am I correct? When do they grow out of being shallow?
2007-07-09 14:56:07 · 17 answers · asked by Megan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course you're correct!!! Think about it!! They are between 14 and 16!!! Some grow out of it, and some don't.
2007-07-09 15:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends. When they relize what is really important in life. Sometimes it happens between 14-16. Sometime shortly after. Sometimes a while after. Someitmes before. Sometimes never. You just gotta relize not all guys are shallow. I understand how much of a pain in the *** some guys are but put up with it cause sometimes you just gotta look for the right guy.
2007-07-09 22:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by Questions after another 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, most guys are shallow, and just wanna get into girls pants to be cool, mostly the popular kids at school. The girls wanna be with popular guys, and a lot of girls get hurt, but won't take the chance with their unpopular friend jack or whatever that really cares about their emotions and are always their for them. Those are the guys who can deal with dating at that age, the rest won't grow up til their 20's, usually late 20's.
2007-07-09 22:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by g_saiyaman2099 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They arent completley shallow; most are just emotionally immature and as a result come off as being shallow. They also might be new to the whole dating scene, whcih means thta they are inexperienced. some are mature at that age and most begin to grow up around that same time.
2007-07-09 22:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by YouKnowMyName 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how well they grow up. i have seen grown men act like 12-year-olds. many are shallow at that age, i wont lie, i was too. i am 23 now, and i have come to the realization that sacrifices must be made for a true relationship. give it some time. no need to rush into something that will severely hurt you. trust an older male. but dont trust one that cant take his eyes off your chest!!! lol. good luck!
2007-07-09 22:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by ratposs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are still immature .At 14-16 a boy is still a child,and thinks like a child.Girls mature faster than boys. They will grow out of most of it. Then I have known men that never did.In fact I married one. We just have to overlook them.I'm glad I'm female.
2007-07-09 22:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by lotteda717 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough age - they are completely controlled by their raging hormones, and think that they know everything...
Most of them will grow out of it by the time they hit 18 or so - but it varies a LOT between different guys...
Some of them NEVER "grow up" - even once they've hit their 40's ;);););)
2007-07-09 22:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if they are shallow as much as immature. Remember girls mature faster then boys do. As far as growing out of it. Most of us never do, lol.
2007-07-09 22:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by golsen2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think it depends on the guy himself. I think both guys and girls can be shallow though, at any age.
2007-07-09 22:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!!! They want to impress their friends with you. They don't really care about the personality all that much because they know they are not ready to marry or aren't going to plan anytime soon. So they first look for physical appearences and later on for the inside. :)
2007-07-09 22:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by Diamond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋