I was helping my new G.F look for her cars key today and I came across a box of interesting battery powered self help devices....should i confront her or pretend as though I never seen them?
2007-07-09 14:54:37 · 33 answers · asked by k s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO! As you had indicated, you were helping her look for her car keys and accidentally found a box of her "play fellows." Leave it be! These were probably items she had when she was without a boyfriend. So why disturb a good relationship?
Maybe someday when you become closer to her and to her intimate thoughts and feelings, and without bringing it up that you had found them, just start tossing out hints. Like, "I think it's pretty cool for a girl to have a girl device to keep her satisfied" or something like that to say. Then if she feels comfortable telling you, she will. So don't push it.
Why would it matter anyway whether she has these "self help devices?" It shouldn't hurt your sexual appetite for her, or does it?
She's your new girl friend, you don't fully know her yet, or her moods, or her family, etc. Get to, only slowly! Take time to enjoy what you have without having to make a "big how do you do" scene. As it really shouldn't matter, now should it?
2007-07-09 15:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by JoJoely 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was me I wouldn't confront her, I wouldn't make it an issue, some women like using toys, I would rather my girlfriend use toys then use various men, just bring up the subject of toys with her, then maybe you both can get in on the fun. Toy are very fun, trust me, I had a girlfriend that used a lot of toys, and sex was very,very,very, fun. If you've never tried toys before go for it, you only live once, make the best of it and explore. A combination of toys and oral if very pleasurable.
2007-07-09 15:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by cgj2812 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her? Not unless you are a prudish wuss boy! Maybe hint (strongly) at using toys while you are intimate with her, and how that would be hot (if it is to you). Probably in the next time or two, she may break em out. If not, that's her side of her life that she wants separate, and it's her prerogative. If you go into her private stuff and break her "playfriend" out in the middle of getting intimate with her, chances are you wont get any that night, or maybe any night. Leave her stuff alone! If you want to go buy one for her to use with the two of you as a "surprise" gift, that would probably be a better bet.
2007-07-09 15:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by SubNRG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you guys been together? If I were you I would just respond in the same way you would want ~her~ to respond if ~she~ was helping you look for YOUR cars keys and she just happened to stumble across a random pile of freaky @ss porn mags, a pocket pu$$y, and a big, half empty jar of Vaseline that has random strands of black and curly in it. Ya know whadda mean? That's what I'm sayin'!
2007-07-09 15:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mention nothing. After the next time you two finish a session, ask her if there is anything she would like possibly to spice up things FOR HER. ie... Positions, toys, lotions, she will probably bring out her stash...and show you what she likes...
2007-07-09 15:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mention it to her.
But much later on you might try to somehow stumble across the topic up as a prelude to spice up your relationship. Be creative!
2007-07-09 15:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her its normal most women have them, its just a part of life who knows maybe she'll have you join her or help her
2007-07-09 15:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by richelle b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not pertend anything. Those don't belong to you and you are not her husband or father. Join the fun and have her bring them out. Be man enought to try something new.
2007-07-09 15:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by ECHO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to confront her, just let her know you found them. There's nothing wrong with having them, and maybe you can use them together.
Good luck!
2007-07-09 15:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by my 2 cents 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i would go up to her the next time she lost her keys and pull the thing out and say "lets have some fun"... but you know... masturbation is normal for boys and girls. accept it and move on
2007-07-09 15:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by iamjustbored10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋