I've tried telling him in a round-about way without actually coming right out and saying it but it's not working. He's asked me and I've made it almost painfully clear without actually saying it. He has a foot fetish, so he doesn't feel that I'm odd. I feel like he knows but doesn't care for it. What do I do?
2007-07-09 14:45:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Might I add that we're both under eighteen and we've only been together for eight months?
2007-07-09 15:15:01 · update #1
i dont know where to start with this one!
2007-07-09 14:50:50 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Shorty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It Sounds Like Your A Masochist, I Suppose You've Got To Ask Yourself If You Do Or Would Like Bondage And Discipline, If You Like The Feel Of Pain In Sexual Acts.. And If You Are Submissive. Etc Etc. Just Tell Him You Think You're A Masochist, And The Things You Want To Do. Ask Him If He'll Give It A Try, He Might Like Like It, And Even Be A Sadist, Or He Might Find It Uncomfortable. Discuss It With Him, And If He Doesn't Like It At Least You Know You Tried.
2016-05-22 00:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First talk to him sweetly. try 2 convince him luvingly. Put on an x-rated fetish DVD and make him watch it with u. If he doesn't understand, start a peaceful non-co-operative movement like not preparing the food for him on time, etc. If he still doesnt get it, bash him up n come 2 me...
2007-07-09 15:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can rent some kind of dirty movie that is similar to how you want him to treat you and while watching, make some kind of comments about "oh, that looks like fun" etc. Keep in mind, if a person doesn't innately enjoy this sort of thing, you're probably not going to be able to train him to like it.
2007-07-09 14:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just come out and tell him. If he has his fetishes he will understand your believes. And also if your going to be able to continue in life together don't you think it all needs to be out in the open to each other. Why live in secrecy from the one you love.
2007-07-09 14:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open and honest communication is the only way to resolve your problem. Sit down and talk to him, spell it out if you have to and help him understand your needs. If you don't he may think you are playing games or something.
2007-07-09 14:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U try to make him understand and explain the situation..
2007-07-09 17:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by rithesh1111 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Repeatedly sing "Hit me baby one more time" during your nooky sessions.
2007-07-09 18:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, if your not enjoying bedroom time, then you need to sit down with him and tell him he's not cutting it for you. Tell him what does it for you and try to relate it to his fettish, I am sure he will realize what he needs to do to help you get yours.
2007-07-09 14:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing like straight and frank.
2007-07-09 15:37:40 · answer #10 · answered by love all 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say it in a sexy way that you like pain in the sack
2007-07-09 14:49:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋