WHY does god hate me so much!!??

Question

he let's others hurt me and see them succeed in their evil plans so often.

i am so angry at him!!

Answer 1

I think the first thing that comes to mind when it seems God is not mindful of me is to consider whether I have been mindful of Him.
I once lived my life outside of the will of God.
Things got pretty screwed up.
I became angry with God and blamed Him.
Years later I found this verse in the Bible:
"The foolishness of man ruins his way,
And his heart rages against the LORD. "
Proverbs 19:3

I told God to get out of my life. Scary thing is, it seemed like He did, for a while.
I felt for weeks, maybe months like I was sinking into a bottomless pit. Everything in life was drab, empty, hollow and meaningless.
I fell into deep depression and despair.
Then one day I came home, fell down on my face and started crying.
Something happened then that was totally unexpected and I did not even know was possible.
A voice spoke inside of me saying "Maybe Jesus really did die for your sins."
A great change came over me, and I felt a rush of peace and love and forgiveness and acceptance and understanding flood my heart, and I knew that God had forgiven me, that I had peace with God, and that I was destined for heaven.
The effect of that encounter totally changed my life, and since then I have learned how to live in the grace and favor of God, to my own great benefit and to the benefit of those around me.

Answer 2

I'm sorry you're so angry - but, God doesn't hate you. Everyone in the world has free will -they can do as they please and if they aren't kind and considerate and caring, it's their choice.

This may sound harsh - but you need to take yourself out of situations where you are being deliberately damaged. If you are under 18 go to the authorities if what is happening is illegal - like any kind of abuse. If you are older, remove yourself from the situation - don't keeping giving those that hurt you another chance to do the same thing. Forgiving someone doesn't mean that you must let them continue to hurt you. Forgive them, then remove yourself from their sphere of influence. If someone is hurting you physically (like slapping you around) get out of there immediately.

If what you see as "evil plans" is gossip by "friends" - maybe it's time to go it alone for a while. Your question is pretty general so I have no way of knowing how much evil you have suffered or what you actually mean by "evil".

If your pain is emotional - "they" can only inflict on you what you will accept. Holding your head high and walking away in the knowledge that you are valuable and valued by God is the best revenge (God's revenge). Take a deep breath, stand strong, and DON'T BE A DOORMAT!

Doormat and Christian are NOT synonyms!

I'll pray for you - God Bless.

Answer 3

I don't think that God hates you just because he doesn't always answer your prayers or protect you. You may just need these experiences to grow as a person. If you were a parent, would your kids say that about you if you weren't able to come to their school and fight all their battles for them? I'm sure God is there to help you when you're down unless you cut off all communication with him so he can't do anything but wait until you're feeling more receptive. I think people expect too much from God sometimes. Watch Evan Almighty and I think you'll get the picture. If God is Love, how could he hate anyone? Is there some reason he should be mad at you?

Answer 4

Shame on you! There are almost 4,000 dead soldiers from the War in Iraq and they would have loved to have a life like you have. There are more than 68,000 dead Iraqi citizens, unable to stay in their homes, go to the store, or look forward to a normal life.

In Africa, thousands and thousands of little babies are dying each week. They won't know what life in America is like, with its abundance of food, its movie theaters, its parks, its playgrounds.

When you think of all of this, you know it is time to grow up a little. The people who hurt you may have been careless or even cruel, but I doubt if they were evil. Life is not all black and white, good and evil. It's plugging along doing the best you can, and forgiving those who trespass against you.

Yes, forgive them....then forgive yourself! Handle that anger and go out there and start living life with a smile! We have a lot to smile about here, because we have fought and struggled to make this land a wonderful one. Be happy in it and stop blaming God for such petty things. He's busy, trying to help those dying babies. You can help him by being thankful for what we have been given. Pray for peace, and thank God, and you'll be a lot happier for doing it.

Answer 5

God doesn't hate anyone...He hates sin.

He loves you like anyone else on the planet, but DOES allow circumstances to come into your life....why? I can't answer that.

Have you gone before Him in prayer and asked?

To ask another person is to get as many different answers as people answering. None of us knows your situation or standing w/ God.

I've had times I've been angry at God, only to learn later on that what happened was actually a better thing than could've.

Pray and ask my friend.

Answer 6

I cannot say that God has a hand in anything that is going on with you. But, I can say that he can see you through any hardship. If you think you have it rough read Job. You could also drive downtown and realize that you do not have it near as rough as you believe. Do not get me wrong. If you are being abused it is rough, but you can rise above it. I know.

As for the plans of evil people. The rain falls on the just and the unjust alike. They will perish and all their plans will be as nothing. Holding in anger at God will not help your situation. But, holding it in would be worse. Feel free to cry out to him and be done with it. Remember, he answered Job and Job could not argue against him.

Answer 7

God don't hate you, people hurt you because you allow them too, you need to take a stand and stop letting people walk all over you and you will start feeling better about yourself..people do get mad at God for things that happen but they stilll love Him even though, I think you still love Him and your just hurt for all that is going on, look for the face of Jesus instead of the things that are going on, God is right there with you and for you..Peace

Answer 8

God does not hate you are anyone. He hates sin. Are you trying to live a sin-free life? God does allow bad things to happen to us so we can learn and grow from the experience. Just like a human parent will allow a toddler to walk on its own knowing that it will fall down and hurt itself. This doesn't mean the parent hates the child, he just let's the child experience life and learn how to walk better.

I would suggest you pray and give praise to God for everthing even those things you see as bad because they are opportunities to develop faith.

Remember -- God is Love!!! Satan is the Liar and Deceiver.

Answer 9

Don't be angry with God. He will get you justice. It will take him a while some times, but he is faithful.

Vengeance is mine, saith the Lord, I will repay.

I have lived for the Lord over 45 years, and have been done dirty many time, but I have never had to lift a hand in retribution. Always, Always without fail later, I will see when they get their just rewards and it is always a whole lot worse that I could ever have repaid them.

Give them in to God's vengeance and claim His promise. He will do more to them than you ever could and you WILL get to hear or see it, I assure you. God has never failed me on this.

Answer 10

Yes indeed, God does allow you to be hurt by others - you are not his puppet that he should run your life different from everybody else. You mention 'evil plans' - so you do recognise that 'evil' exists; and do you accept that there is an evil power behind it, the one that really hates you?