I am CRAZY over my best friend! hes really cute and i never noticed it, i looked at him one day and GOSH hes HOT, i dont want to ruin our friendship but im freaking out cause we're really good friends (hugging, leaning on eachother, holding hands) what do i do!!!!!!
2007-07-09 14:16:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him out
2007-07-09 14:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't most people want a relationship with someone they can communicate with like they do with their best friend?
Definitely ask him out! If you're too shy to directly ask him out you could try something like this: arrange to have a couple of your friends accompany you for some activity and just tell him "we're going to (activity here) would you like to come along"? If he eagerly agrees, he probably likes you. The next time you ask him to join you, say "my friends can't make it" so you have him all to yourself! At that point, standard flirting procedures should be employed as necessary.
2007-07-09 21:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendships lasts forever. I know you value your friendship. The best advice I can give you is tell him what you really feel. Who knows? Maybe he's feeling the same way too. Some friendships end up because of these reasons but you're already in his heart. You're already a part of his life. Tell him what you feel, that's my only advice but the decision is still up to you.
2007-07-09 21:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step up and say something to him. Make sure he Knows that you don't want to ruin your friendship. I have this guy friend I have Known for 20 years. I think he is hot and I told him straight up and we ended up dating a little while. We are still best buds though.
2007-07-09 21:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by kelly w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool
I know how you feel.
I had a best friend that i really really liked.
Get to Know him more and ask him who he likes or ask him what his list of girls are see if you're on his top 5.
If you ask him who he likes and he says you... Good for you and just go for it and ask him out.
But if he doesn't like you then. I'm so sorry. but try not to act dissapointed and don't get mad at him because he doesn't like u. That might ruin your friendship.
You might feel a little heart broken but try to cool it.
I liked this guy too and he was a really good friend of mine and i asked him who he liked and he said me! and i reallly got happy.
Hope your guy will turn out fabulous too!
2007-07-09 21:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by Nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hehe, you know if he is leaning on you and holding hands he likes you, But when you ask him out dont say stupid things. Be yourself and nothing else. you act like yourself and he is ur bestfriend then he will be your Boyfriend if u act like yourself :)
2007-07-09 21:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you got to do is say you like him that worked for me with my girlfriend and 8 months later still dateing
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2007-07-09 21:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by Smitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ask him out but... aask him if its gonna ruin your friendship when u break up, if you can still be best friends..
go for it / dont go for it
well its ur decision
Best of Luck
2007-07-09 21:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just have to play it cool around him , but try not to act any different.
if he's your best friend , i would not suggest making a move on him, it could be weird for the both of you.
2007-07-09 21:21:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out it kinda sounds like u guys already started kiss him or somthin and then ask him out so he'll want more
2007-07-09 21:24:58 · answer #10 · answered by fuckingloser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋