Whats up with guys or rather husbands?
Just found out with 60% of men cheat. Can't a guy learn how to respect a girl?
I wanna know a guys aspect on cheating.
2007-07-09 14:01:01 · 9 answers · asked by ♥iloveyou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally I'm the other 40%, I don't think it's right that your cheating on your GF/Wife with another woman. It can be different, like your GF/Wife tells you it's ok, then it's ok, but highly unlikely. Then theres the thing of cheating on your GF/Wife with another man, then theres a differences because he turns out to be gay, come on which situation would you be most pissed about, your BF/Husband cheating on you with another Woman or Man?
BD
2007-07-09 14:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by Black Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only help you by saying I am a guy and have never cheated. Your statistics may be correct, but that means that 40% of men do not cheat. It is possible that whoever you are talking about is among my 40% that don't. While it is possible that whoever you are talking about is among the 60% that do; you have to consider the other 40% that don't.
As well, women are not immune to cheating also. I don't have those statistics either, but I would think they might be considerable. Trust is you best instinct and it is not really related to either sex. Even if 1% of either sex cheated, you could be among them or your partner.
Some guys are thinking the same thing you are. We all deserve respect and fidelity. Let's hope that your question is not directed at you alone and that we all would be faithful. That is not realistic, but there is always the hope that it is.
2007-07-09 21:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by Boomer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, male humans are not innately monogamous; it is a condition forced upon us by religion and/or government. There are relatively few species where the males only mate with one particular female. If it weren't for the social/legal consequences, most male humans would mate with as many females as possible, subject only to number available and the limits of human endurance. When you think about it this way, I find it rather amazing that 40% of men do NOT cheat!
The best you can do to possess a man and keep him yours, is try to make the time he spends with you sufficiently pleasurable that he would think twice about doing something where he would risk losing your companionship.
2007-07-09 21:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys suck. We get board especially if we aint gettin any. If you "satisfy" your man alot and he still cheats... beats the hell outta me, Ill take ya!
2007-07-09 21:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by B_Wreck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
difference between a boy and a man. but women can be just as bad-but they keep secrets better than guys
2007-07-09 21:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kinda surprised to hear that it's only 60%.... I would have assumed 75-80%.... hmm.
2007-07-09 21:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by micaremi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is bad
best to be honest
if he can't get any for a long time, has explained what he wants, and still nothing
then its justified
2007-07-09 21:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why to be with one if you can have ten.lol
just joking. i never cheat
2007-07-09 21:05:52 · answer #8 · answered by prsamor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am sorry a dude did that to you butt a true man respects a girls.
2007-07-09 21:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by Spencer L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋