People like to talk abut things from their interests. Most of all, about themselves. So, bit by bit, starting with a single and simple question, start to get accustomed to talk with her. Don't try to say all what you want to at the first time.
2007-07-09 13:29:36
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answer #1
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answered by robertonereo 4
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This is a subject I can help you in!
Here are some steps that helped my boyfriend get me:
1.) Go up to the girl and introduce yourself to her. Say what you like to do.
2.) Then say to her " ....So what do you like?"
3.) You may have a lot in common with her.
4.) Once you really get talking you can ask her out like to dinner or the movies.
5.) Good luck!!!! Bye
2007-07-09 20:26:56
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answered by Anonymous
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Practice what ur gonna say before u say it (it helps if u say it in front of a mirror.) Also talk to her like shes just a friend like if u were to ask her to the movies u might say "Hey Im gonna go see a movie tonight u in?" If ur trying to sweet tlk her girls like it better when u call them Beautiful instead of hot it just sounds more sincere. If u need anymore help just email at
dramaqueen_4lyph@yahoo.com
best of luck,
Kristen
2007-07-09 20:25:55
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answered by Anonymous
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Forget the "sweet talking" for the moment.
Just treat her like you do anyone whose company you enjoy.
If you are in the same class or group, talk about things you have in common.
Be yourself, don't be phony.
She is just a person with the same insecurities as you.
Good luck
2007-07-09 20:26:27
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answered by ambow 2
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Quit zoning in on her body and her "assets" and focus on your strong points and be yourself. There's no sense in talking about useless stuff or trying to figure out the best possible most romantic thing to say.......you should be noticing your surroundings and whats going on around you in the moment.....example....commenting on something rather than her......wait until you start getting to know her more to start making the compliments on her.
2007-07-09 20:26:08
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answered by insane_19 1
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Try something a little simpler than sweet talk if you're really coming off like a doofus. If you can handle that, then try something syrupy.
Start small, work your way up. James Bond you aren't. Try talking first, then sweet talking.
It's like exercise--build up your strength gradually.
2007-07-09 20:26:05
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answered by SlowClap 6
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Fail, many times. You have to experience going down in flames so you can learn from your mistakes. It's like when Ricky Bobby drives with the cougar.
2007-07-09 20:23:42
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answered by alwaysmoose 7
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Don't sweet talk.
Ask questions upon questions upon questions. Make sure that the questions revolve around her and are EASY for her to answer. Talk about HER school and HER work and HER life.
2007-07-09 21:05:22
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answered by original_pet 4
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why not just start with hello and worry about sweet talking her later?
Its funny, girls get so nervous too, and guys don't realize that when they stop to say hello, it makes our tummies fluster....find a subject that you're comfy with and bring that conversation up with her...take it from there
good luck!!
2007-07-09 20:25:19
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answered by jennifer p 3
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Just imagine her weaknesses, her flaws in her charicter and all that sort of thing. If you image all that you will find it easier to talk to her.
Every person has their shortcomings, I mean every single one, some are better at hiding them, some dont bother hiding them and so on.
2007-07-09 20:27:04
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answered by ChAtMaN 4
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