Do you think that attraction is a choice or not? Do you choose to be attracted to someone or you just are attracted no matter what you do. Can you choose who you are attracted to or its just happens by its self?
2007-07-09 12:54:29 · 3 answers · asked by vetal_2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is definitely not a choice who you are attracted to. I was very much in love with my college roommates boyfriend. It is a choice if you act on it though. Attraction and pheremones are weird things.
2007-07-09 12:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by nope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction does happen on its own ive found. Some issues do influence it though, things like if she is single, if she looks avalible, is she with another guy, does she look down to earth.
Its got a fair bit to do with that and pheremones and things. Thats why love isnt perfect and you can be attracted to total arseholes and not see that because your "blinded" by love.
Also the reason why most relationships dont work out, you cant base a relationship on just love, it gives the motervation to work things out but it wont solve your arguments or anything.
2007-07-09 13:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but some people cant speak there own mind
2007-07-09 13:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by xogirly g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋