2007-07-09 10:52:10 · 31 answers · asked by ? 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
i will always love you
2007-07-09 20:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Come Break Me Down♥ 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
We all 'hate" our parents at some point in our childhood; this particular statement usually pops up when a conflict is in progress. It is true that children hate their parents a LOT more now than they did, and this is because they have no respect for them; the adults whom they look to for guidance let them run wild and are afraid to behave like parents, thus children have no secure foundation to lean on. Are you a "parent" or a "buddy"? if you are a parent, then it is part of being a parent, that your children should say such things when they are angry with you for saying "No".In that case, you simply say, "I'm sorry you feel that way, but the answer is still NO", and just let it go. They will get over it.
If you are a buddy, well then you have more to worry about, because your kids are not your "buddies"; (they already HAVE "buddies") Kids need PARENTS to stand up to them and take charge. if you are a "buddy", then they probably REALLY DO hate you, for being a lame-o!
2007-07-09 13:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by Vajranagini 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Daughter: Barbeesha Son: Howie
2016-05-21 22:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am intrigued. For one thing, it's Sunman who asks this question. No fool he!
For another, because the question is written in the future tense.
Maybe I'm wrong but I think the answer might be, 'I tried. When I saw the danger, I stood up for what I thought was best'.
But I fear that the answer will be, 'I did nothing. I saw the danger, and I did nothing'.
Hello teacher.
2007-07-12 08:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the neighbors, gather the mob and meet me outside the gates. You're going to need stones. Big, heavy, stones. Lots of them.
Oh, yeah, I almost forgot, I'm a Gentile. Teach your kid why that's a hurtful thing to say and show them that they really don't mean that. Let them know you love them, but your decision is final and explain your reasoning. The tantrum will fade, and they'll love you again.
2007-07-09 11:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
We've all been there, and we all know that there comes a time when we think that the elders are either trying to control our lives or just don't want us to do what we love, but then we realize that they're right, so it's pretty illogical to treat our kids unfairly.
They say "I hate you", we should say "yes, I understand your feeling now, but eventually you'll understand that everything I do is for your good."
They're our kids, and we need to teach them to deal with stress and pressure maturally.
If they say "I hate you" and we say the same thing back or start beating at them, what morals are we teaching them then?
We are their role models, they get their attitudes from us, we should be careful about that.
Peace.
2007-07-09 11:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
I understand that - I can tell that you do right now. I am sorry you are so angry with me. But it's okay -it will pass, and then we can talk. I am doing what I believe is best for both of us, and sometimes we won't agree !!!!
Let me know when you feel calm. I love you......
edit; to capitainamerica- good lord, you would toss your child out in a moment of frustration from them? hate is the flip side of love - we all feel it when we feel deeply - haven't you ever?
2007-07-09 11:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by cosmicshaktifire? 5 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Calmly sit them down and tell them -that it is not acceptable to speak to your parent that way. The Lord put you two over them and they need to obey the first time and with a good attitude. We all sometimes get angry, but we need to understand that m & d mean well and there are still a lot of thing you don't understand.
I could think of more but this just came off the top of my head.
2007-07-09 10:57:23 · answer #8 · answered by K in Him 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Cast them into a pit of eternal torture?
Well, you can try if you want. I will keep loving my kids whatever they do.
Even if they commit a crime I will still love them. That love may have to include removing them from a position whare they can harm others but at no point would I throw them away.
But then it appears I have better ethics than most gods.
2007-07-09 10:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Simon T 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
"That's okay I still Love You." Then turn around and walk away. Go in their closet and write what they said and the date on the inside of their closet door. Write it on a piece of paper and hang it in the pantry, include, this food is for those I Love Next time they ask you for money to buy them a new outfit, open the closet door, show them what you wrote and walk away. They will soon get the message.
2007-07-09 11:02:38 · answer #10 · answered by PREACHER'S WIFE 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Simmer down and hush your mouth!! Just wait till your father comes home! Yr not goin to McDonalds and gettin a happy meal!!
2007-07-11 03:08:47 · answer #11 · answered by sandra b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋