ok so i need help finding a guy any suggestions?

Answer 1

Here are a few tips.

1) Present yourself as an aproachable person. I have seen lots of girls that have worst attitude than a coyote with rabies. If you look friendly guys will be more willing to take a chance and talk to you. To look friendly just smile.

2) Present yourself as a fun person. When you go out go out with the intention of having fun, not with the intension of meeting somebody. Do things that are fun to you and really enjoy yourself. People are attracted to people that are enjoying themselves. An example, lets say you go to a book store. You see a person reading a book. Every 10 seconds the person laughs while reading the book. Most people will see this and will become curious as to why is the book so funny. So, they'll go pick up the book. Some will even ask question to the person that finds the book so amusing.

3) Choose your hunting grounds wisely. You want to meet guys then go to places where it is easier for meeting and talking to people. An example, is a pottery class, or a gym. A bar is not such a good choice because is loud plus there is a lot of competition. Also, people tend to be either aprehensive there are are looking for things other than a relationship. By the same token go to places where you will find guys at. For example the track whee they race cars are always more full of guys than at the female section of the clothe stores.

4) play challenging to get not hard to get. There is a big difference. A lot of girls confuse hard to get to impossible to get. You have to let the guy know that you are interested and there are posibilities if he persist ensuing you. This is the opposite to if the guy wants me he better be ready to move heaven and earth. Two very different things. Guys like a challenge and like the chase but many will want to hunt something that is too difficult. Look at it this way, if you are a runner would you like to run with people at your skill level or with the world faster land runner. If the worldfastest land runner told you, I'll give you everything if you beat me would you try. Maybe you would a few times but after a while it will become too hard and you will get frustrated and quit. To catch the world faster land runner would take many years of practice and dedication and that doesn't guarantee success. So, don't become the world faster land runner. Become a beteable opponent. But too easy is also bad. Guys like a bit of a challenge. Its like saying if you practice running a bit you will catch me. By this you are saying, I'm catcheable but you will have to work a bit to do it. Guys like this mentality a lot.

4) Finally fix one of the most common mistakes woman make. Don't think you are all that. I'm not saying to settle for the first ting either. What I'm saying is be realistic. The first thing is to list what are the tings you want and expect from a guy. Ok, now that you made your list the hard part comes. That is list what YOU are willing to give. Most girl forget this part. Believe me the answer better be something other than "I'm giving myself". Not a good answer belive me. Remember that while you are offering yourself another girl is offering, cooking, love, attention, sometimes childrens, willing to listen, willing to do some sacrifises for the relationship etc etc. The idea is to be realistic about what you expect and what you are willing to give. Ofcourse, all within reason. Not everybody deserves all the sacrifice we do. The question is if they do, are you willing?

5) One thing I forgot is to show interest in what the guy does. That is one thing that drives guy crazy. Show some interest in our hobbies. When we guys meet a girl we would like them to be part of our world. That world include our hobbies. Whether they are computes, video games, cars, fishing or what not. You don't have to be an expert at it just show some interest every now and then. For example if the guy is wood working in his basement ask him what is he doing. Let him explain his ideas. Let him express himself. Also make some suggestions if you have any. A day or two later ask him about how his project is going. When he says, let me show you take 5 minutes to see it. Women tend to forget this simple detail. They want us to listen to all their bull but won't listen to ours.

6) finally finally hehehe is to understand that woman and men are different. We do things that woman don't like and woman do things that men don't like. Is ok not to like them. What must be understood that there are some different points of view. So, is ok to disagree but that does not makes me an idiot that that my answer albeit not agreeable to yours is often times just as valid. IS not the same saying I won't do it because is wrong than saying I won't do it because I disagree with it. One is about your belief system and one is about perception. I mean there are times when things are wrong no matter which way you put it. Often times is wrong because we don't agree with it. Big difference. The thing is that if you understand that He will do things because thats what guys do is an acceptable answer. You don't have to do it or agree with it but your approach is important.

Answer 2

YOu wanna be able to find a guy that knows how to take care of you. Who is willing to listen to you when you talk. And loves and adores you.

I went out with a guy who only wanted what he thought he could get. And i asked a question and i knew it from the first time he asked to do it, i knew it was going down hill So if yoour looking for a guy, make sure you know he's the right one that'll treat you right.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Do the things that you like to do, go to the places you like to go. If you see a good looking guy there, go chat with him. At least you already know that he enjoys some of the same things you like.

Answer 5

okay well do you have your eye on a certain guy? Cuz if you do, just be fun, happy, flirty. Just try to be cute and talk to him as if your not afraid or overrulled by him. Who knows? Maybe he likes you too (:

Answer 6

Ask one of your friends to set you up...if not that...what about at work?

Answer 7

If you're old enough, try match.com or something. it's cheap and safe to use

Answer 8

make sure he knows that you excisted!!!!
be always around him talk to him start getting to know him better and better :]