So I am not the type to spend to much energy on analyzing my dreams until they happen, yet I had this weird dream..
Note: I never had mushy loving or sexual dreams "beleive it or not"...Yet I had this dreams of kissing this guy intensivley, this guy I have tried to forget him meaning I cut all ties with him including my friends that know him to move on. We didn't have a past relationship rather somewhat of a fling, YEAH, that's exactly why I wanted to get over him. He wasn't taking me serious and played with me feellings.. Could this mean I have just tried to hard to get over him or is this like some evil forces attacking me? Okay, that sounds weird but really..I always say dreams are your fears and fantasy's..But I want to beleive there just dreams that humans have, simple thoughts thru out the days of our life...
2007-07-09 07:47:48 · 6 answers · asked by Unbreakable Me 5 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
You obviously went to great lengths to get this man out of your life, by doing this you had to constantly have him on your mind. Now that you have accomplished this and are no longer active in a conscious way with him or his friends, your subconscious is taking over. You still have feeling for this man and they are coming out in your dream. Don't let this make you go back as you have come far and the longer the time away from this person the better off you will be. I don't think there is a fear or fantasy to this dream, just a subconscious reminder that it happened and your mind let it out in the dream.
2007-07-09 07:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by H. A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of your brain as the most complex computer in the universe. Like a regular computer, it downloads (in your sleep) and compartmentalizes information. Sometimes it retrieves old information - for whatever reason - and sometimes it is recent information.
Keeping a journal of your dreams (if you remember them every day) is a good way to spot 'trends' of things that may be bothering you that are manifesting in your sleep.
A lot of times, when I take apart a particularly weird dream, I can find the 'dot' of reality that started the whole process. For example, I may have an anxiety dream that totally freaks me out - like the time I dreamed I used a toothpick to kill a vampire that was after me and then he turned into a twinkie instead of dust). Then when I started dissecting it the next day, I realized it was an anxiety dream because what else would a vampire chasing you produce except ANXIETY!?
Once I establish the type dream, I can compare it to what is going on in my life. In this instance, I had something I didn't want to do that I HAD to do (anxiety producing) that I knew when I did it, it was going to be no big deal - or in other words, when I did what was causing the anxiety (the vampire) it was going to turn into a twinkie (no big deal).
Many types of dreams are anxiety dreams. Falling in particular. Flying can even be an anxiety dream if your subconscious is trying to get you to admit you want to 'fly away' from a situation or person.
Maybe you are not as over this person as you think, or maybe he represents something you are feeling about another person or situation and that is why he appeared in your dream.
Take the dream apart by components and compare them to what is going on in your life and see if there are any parallels.
Good luck!
2007-07-09 14:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by stevijan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh I have had some weird dreams about guys that I just know as friends where I felt like in love in my dream. Actually, in one dream I just knew the name of the guy I dreamed about,I didn't even talk to him. They're pretty weird. But, I think your's means you have feelings for him that don't want to admit that you have. I don't think evil forces are attacking you.
2007-07-09 14:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are feeling lonely or deprived, your subconscious will pick an image to express that to you. Maybe you just miss the intense energy of that type of a fling -- it can be very enjoyable, even if it leads nowhere.
2007-07-09 14:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by Yahzmin ♥♥ 4ever 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i always found that the only thing you can think about for a while after a relationship is the ex. also i had the same thing happen to me and i found ppl to vent on and it realy help, you might realize what the person did to make you feel the ways you do. i hope this helped
2007-07-09 14:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by Chris S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive had dreams about kissing people that i dont even like!
he is probably just on you mind so you are dreaming of him it doesnt have to mean that you should be together
2007-07-09 14:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋