well i seem to get along with the guys i know! but even though i asked one of them out (the one who i though liked me the way i liked him)he never responded.......i didnt take it hard or anything but it makes me wonder.....am i too intimidating for him or any other guy just becaus i am a tomboy???i really wish that i could have someone......the real question is ....do guys find me too ungirly to date,or am i intimidating because i take karate and i hunt and i am not afriad to stand up for my beliefs.........what shoudl i do....i cant give up my life for a guy please i need advice of some sort
2007-07-09 05:44:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just continue to be your true self -- someone will eventually come along that appreciates it. Worked for me (20 years happy marriage) and I have a friend that sounds JUST like you, also happily married now for many years, 2 kids, etc. And she can STILL bring home the trophy heads!
2007-07-09 05:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Yahzmin ♥♥ 4ever 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with the way that you are, so I agree with you that you shouldn't change especially for some guy. You should continue to be yourself, just know that you will find the right guy at the right time. Its hard being self sufficient and so well rounded because today's "MAN" (no disrespect intented) are not as strong as they once use to be in order to handle a woman such as yourself. If your desires are to have someone then you may want to tone it down some but never change. You may also want to look for someone outside of your friends. Someone that doesn't know of you. For instance, if you live in the city then hang out in the suburbs. Good luck and have tons of fun.
2007-07-09 05:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you one of those women that reveals everything about yourself in a maddening, first conversation rush? Do you dress like a guy? To help you, I need to know a little more about U. I've met and known some tomboys over the years that I really wanted to wrestle with---naked that is. There's nothing wrong with taking karate or hunting or standing up for one's self, unless you're dealing with a non-ending supply of friendly morons, who don't or can't comprehend the idea of a woman with brains. I'm interested in solving this with you and, if you are too, hit me back with more info at, www.askaman@yahoo.com, okay babe? Take care,
askaman
2007-07-09 06:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by www.askaman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always stay true to yourself. They're boys who like tomboys but reality is some guys think with that other organ instead of the right one.
So do you dress like a boy? if so, try wearing something that shows your figure a bit. I'm not saying throw on a dress and heels just soften up a bit, occasionally switch up into casual but comfortable outfit. You can still be you, just a little softer in appearance wise. I mean look at it from their point a view. Why would they want someone who looks and acts like them all the time. They might as well be gay right? Look at it as a compromise
2007-07-09 05:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by redbone_lds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt say give up your life for a guy but perhaps you could be a touch more girly. Now I dont know how you dress or stuff but I think you need to put yourself out there. Now I dont mean start dressing like a slut or something but definetly show the guys that you are interested and that you can be sensual, sexy and girly. I am not saying to do this 24/7 but let them know you can. Guys like this in girls and it could let some of your guy friends realize that they could have the whole package in you...i.e. a beautiful girl who is pretty, sexy, and knows how to kick *** and shoot some ducks. Its most guys dream maybe the guys you hang out with dont know that you could be both a good friend and a great girlfriend.
2007-07-09 05:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by Confused Guy 1031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was the same way. maybe u may need to dress in a more "girly" fashion. now i dont mean, wearing revealing tanks and mini skirts, but make them know that u really are a girl, wear some nice fitting jeans, and maybe a t-shirt that gives u curves. maybe go to the movies a little more with them. you certainly do not have to give up your life for a guy, being confident in who you are and your beliefs can be iintimidating, but if a person likes you, they'll like you for that. Maybe you shouldnt date some of the guys you hang out with the most, branch out, and let someone new find you. Maybe they've been apart of your "man-ish" side for so long that they cont picture dating you. so find some new guy to persue, but dont forget about your friends.
2007-07-09 05:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by rayray23purplerules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Give Up....The Right One Will Come Soon....Plus I Don't Know But Guys I've Known Like Girls That Know About Sports And Can Hangout The Way Their Friends Do...
2007-07-09 05:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by Smiley139 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they probably are intimidated by u, but who cares they are just whimps then if they don't have the courage 2 ask u out. i don't see why they wouldn't say yes 2 u, cuz a girl that likes 2 hunt is awesome cuz i luv 2 hunt and guys always go target shooting w/ me... try 2 find some other guys that u would want 2 go out w/ and hopefully they won't b chickens like the other ones. :)
2007-07-09 05:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by ChUcHiE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two types of women out there. A girl's girl or a guy's girl. If you can connect with a guy on a friendship level then the possibilities are endless. Right now you're young and boys might view you as another buddy, but when you're older that will be your best quality. Are you kidding me my husband loves that I go out with him and do manly things. Most guys like a girl that can hang. Give it time and don't change.
2007-07-09 05:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by All Smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well first dont change who you are just for a guy cuz that happened to me and then they guy ended up liking the old me so just dont change your ways or your style just be you. if anything a guy should like you even more cuz you stand up for what you believe in. no guy is worth changing over trust me. also go back to that other guy that you asked out and have a serious conversation with him...ask him if he likes you or if he just likes you as a friend. if he does than thats great and if he doesnt then go for another guy but just dont sound to desperate good luck and if you need more help than you can email me at theusedrox15@sbcglobal.net or IM at theaudition14
2007-07-09 05:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋