is this ok in a relationship or isnt it?

Question

is it ok for your lover 2 keep in touch wit all her friend guys, and is it ok for them 2 give there phone number out 2 new guys. and co workers

Answer 1

well if there just friends then why not,the thing is we all have a horrible thing when we get with someone that there gonna cheat on us whether your male or female i think its a bad idea to tell her to stay away from her friends coz there a differnt sex but tell her how it makes you feel if she loves you then she will understand and maybe introduce them all to you they could be your friends to if these men are exs however then you need to tell her its not on i bet if she was in your position she wouldnt be very happy about it !!

Answer 2

Things are 'ok' in a relationship only so long as it's ok with both of them. It sounds like it isn't ok with you so tell her and don't get into a big "they're just my friends" argument over it because it won't solve anything. Just calmly tell her that it bothers you and don't let her redefine your feelings by accusing you of being 'jealous'. Again don't get drawn into an argument about it.

It doesn't depend on this that or the other about the other people. This is about the two of you. Either she values your feelings on this or she doesn't. If she doesn't then you have to ask yourself why you're with her.

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A lot of people are trotting out the "as long as it never crosses the line" argument. This never makes any sense at all. You shouldn't have to constantly monitor the other person's interaction with others for "line crossing". If the relationship is important to her it's a very small thing you're asking of her. We all know how we're suppose to behave in a committed relationship. The problem is that it sounds like you're the only one in a committed relationship.

Answer 3

I think in relationships, at least mine, if my partner was to have previous friends that he normally talked to that were females i wouldnt pull him away from them. You know they did come before you so you cant really make her drop her friends thats not right! But as for giving her numbers out to new guys,,,i dont like the sound of that!! I would be ok with that! But co-workers that may be good for her they may have to call her to cover a shift or her call them.. Just trust her until you have a reason not to.. anbd give her the benefit of the doubt! if you get suspicious than check up on her!

Answer 4

Well it depends these guy friends do they have girlfriends and was she in a relationship with them before...and giving her number out to other guys depends on her job if she needs to keep in touch with other co-workers...i'd say talk to her about how this bothers you and hopefully she will either stop or you will get a better understanding of why she is giving out her number

Answer 5

If you have an open relationship it's OK. She at a minimum is keeping all of her options open and even developing more, regard your relationship with her in the same way this one isn't going to be long term for you. Yours is simply a "friends with benefits" relationship, nothing wrong with that as long as you know it up front.

Answer 6

Well, I don't see the problem with her keeping in touch with her friends. Even if they are Male. But, I do think it is weird if they give your girlfriend phonenumber to people she don't even know.

Answer 7

yes it is ok what isnt ok is to use 2 instead of to

Answer 8

no its not good to give it out to guys...coworkers are different however....if you both spend time out of work with the coworkers,,,if not be careful whats up

Answer 9

if you guys trust each other, and if they really are "just friends"

then its fine, but just knowing the mentality of men

the boyfriend would probably get mad and jealous

Answer 10

I thinks its a little disrespectful, but that's just my opinion.