Im 13, mom makes wear bras w/ much support and coverage, she says I need them. But I don't enjoy them, especially now in the summer. But mom is stubborn. I fought a lot w/ mom over this, got grounded a few times for being disrespectful. Last week I lost my temper, got a pair of scissors and in front my mom cut up the bras she gave me. I know this was wrong, apologized but my mom got REALLY mad at me. Punishment: She took me to a lingerie store and got me those bras called long line that covers all of your torso and back have 10 hooks in the back, all of them made of very thich material. I'll have to wear them till Oct 1st, EVERYDAY,They are kinda uncomfortable, much worse than my other bras. I gotta wear all the time, except in bed. Dont you agree this punishment is too harsh and unfair? What do I do now? They make me sweat, I HATE them! Those hooks make me MAD! but it seems mom won't back off. And if she doesn't back off? How can I live with them, the sweat, and those hooks??
2007-07-09 02:47:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
For punishment, I have to wear those bras everyday. Even with my own money I'm not allowed to buy a diffrenet bra
2007-07-09 02:53:55 · update #1
It seems fair. Hey, life is a ***** and you have to get used to it.
2007-07-09 02:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by wiifanboi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to deal with it. You should not have cut up expensive bras that you did not buy.
Perhaps wearing this more constricting bras will make you more thankful for what bras you should be wearing (the ones you cut up).
Talk to your mom about cutting back on the time in the bra if you do extra chores. Pay her back the money that she lost by your immature reaction with cutting up those bras. Agree to buy your own bras, but under her supervision (when you are 18 buy whatever bras you want!).
2007-07-09 11:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your mom could show a little more common sense. The long line bras are inappropriate for this time of year and your age. A better job should have been done choosing your first bras. Maybe an aunt could help you where she couldn't.
2007-07-09 03:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get sympathy in a dictionary. Hey, you asked for it by being a spoiled bratty little monster.
It's time you realize that growing up means having to do what your parents tell you to do - quietly and respectfully.
And you should be grounded until October1st, too. No friends, no pool, no parties, no nothing.
2007-07-09 02:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think it seems fair...actually thats kind of a clever way of punishing you...i would've never thought of that!!! you are 13 your mom doesnt want you wearing other kinds because you arent mature enough when you are older you can wear the sexier ones!!! but dont throw a hissy fit because you cant wear what you want...this world is full of bad things...pick and choose your battles...and october 1st isnt that far away...only 2 months and 22 days!!! :) i know cause thats my birthday
2007-07-09 02:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by tony d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is very fair. you should not be disrespecful with your mom. do not ever do that again! dont you dear to act like that with your mom; she wants the best for you, and you are a child and she can still decide for you.
Learn from your experience, and complete your punishment and DONT be upset with your mother. treat her well -good :)luck
2007-07-09 03:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by florrr2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you shouldn't have disrespect your mom in the 1st place...you should've just appreciated what she had given you and i know that my mom is sometimes stubborn, too but she knows better...she's my MOM! so, next time, listen to her and respect her so you wouldn't get grounded...
2007-07-09 03:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by sexychocolate91 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋