Ok
i asked a question earlier
about if i should make new friends
because all seem to jst want to get drunk nd have alot of sex wt each otehr nd throw the tht of an actual relationshp out the window, then i began to realize
this seems to go alot with my college
especilay at the local frat houses
nd such
even at spring break
everyone is jst trying to sleep wt as many people as possible
WHY is college
labeled out to be just a big drunken orgy
isnt this the time when we are supposed to be preparing ourselves for the future
not trying to get pregant nd **** up our lives
i just dont i guess understand
is this the view of everyone in college or jst the majority
2007-07-09 02:05:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, I'm the SAME WAY. I hate college chicks because they just get drunk and sleep around. It pisses me off because I can't find a half-decent girl...
And what Tony said is true, pick your own crowd. I have some good friends, and they do their thing and I do mine. You don't need to join the ruckus if you don't want to.
2007-07-09 02:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
confident there some faculties in which you would be able to take those styles of training, yet they're commonly the community college ones. 4 365 days college ones require a form, in all possibility money to observe, and essays. I had taken a cake adorning classification as quickly as at a community college. And confident, I did meet my companion at school. It became our freshman 365 days at Michigan State college. we are meant for the different!
2016-10-20 09:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by matchett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't have to be. Just cause everyone else is out to kill off as many brain cells as possible doesn't mean that it's the only way to enjoy college. If you can, try to make friends with people who don't drink as much, or ones who don't care if you don't drink as much, or not at all. I've been the one at a party drinking dr. pepper and still enjoying myself. There are people who feel the same way you do, but probably not in the Frat houses.
2007-07-09 02:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by Christa H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this can be true with a lot of colleges and frat houses. But you have to realize that 75% of college students are there to strictly get an education, not see how many girls they can screw. Some people even find the true loves of their life in college.
2007-07-09 02:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because a lot of kids at college are late-teens, early 20s, living away from home for the first time, a lot of whom live in dorms and frat houses at their parents expense. Of course there's going to be a lot of drunken debauchery. (As the saying goes, there is a time and place for everything, it's called "college").
It's no wonder that bachelor's degrees no longer mean what they used to.
2007-07-09 02:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some schools are labeled more of a party school. Seems like you may have chosen one. You may want to think of transferring to another school or something. But most kids act this way because there are no parents to guide them. Just take life as it is coming to you, think with your brain and you shall do no wrong.
2007-07-09 02:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jamezy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with you, this is the way I look at it. While everyone is getting all ****** up and having lots of sex, I'm working towards my future, and one day all those hardcore partier's are going to work for me one day. But at the same time it's okay to enjoy yourself party on the weekends, and sex is amazing, so don't overdue it like them but at the same time let loose on the weekends and enjoy being young.
2007-07-09 02:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by tokarcjm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its often portrayed like that but it doesnt have to be like that!!! no matter where you go you are always going to find people that wanna party hard whether or not you join is completely up to you...i know its tough being around that constantly especially when you are trying to stay focused but just try and meet new people who have the same interests as you do...those friends you will probably keep during and way beyond college!! good luck
2007-07-09 02:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by tony d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in college and you're complaining about drinking and having sex....?
Riiiiiiight.......
If you choose not to have fun during you're few remaining responsibility-free years, then so be it. But don't complain about everyone else's lifestyle choices and stop trying to ruin it for your schoolmates.
2007-07-09 02:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well... what do you honestly expect to see at a FRAT house? c'mon seriously...
2007-07-09 02:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by Soap Box Preacher 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋