choose a pretty curvyish girl over a pretty skinny girl?? basically, i'm not a skinny girl n i feel that now i just have no hope in ever findin a guy, i'm self conscience about the way i look, n i just feel guys wont go for me becoz i'm like a size 6 or smaller. wot do u think?
2007-07-09 01:36:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i ment to say i'm NOT like a size 6 or smaller not that i am sorry,
2007-07-09 05:31:20 · update #1
Personally, I'm attracted to the curvier types, and I'm sure that many guys like myself are attracted to those types.
You have a chance with a nice guy as long as you have a great personality. Looks don't matter at all if there's no chemistry or connection. Also, have confidence in yourself. Guys prefer women that are comfortable with who they are, and there's nothing sexier than a female that's happy with who they are physically, mentally, and emotionally.
2007-07-09 01:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was single, the woman's looks didn't matter as much as her personality and the chemistry between us.
Of course being cute helped make the initial attraction, but it really didn't matter what her body type was.
I'm one of those weird guys who doesn't really have a "type" as far as what I look for in women.
If I find her attractive, she could be skinny, curvy, bbw, young, old, or really anything, as long as the chemistry is there.
Don't worry -- one day the guy who can't live without you in his life will come along and you won't be able to run him off with a stick!!
2007-07-09 08:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by Goyo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think any woman with a beautiful face is worth being "chosen". I'll take a curvy girl with a pretty face over a skinny girl any day. Honestly, a pretty face is all I ask for. It's the personality that does the choosing...
2007-07-09 08:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Myself i like smaller petite not into the larger 1s or curvy, rounded.A 6 isn't small so be lucky you can eat they can't??They do,It's how you present yourself. Look not to sexy not to prudish, just enough to attract.Never over show as that will be the wrong approach.The best is communication skills education that will win there hearts an minds. Have fun stay thin it's in for me?
2007-07-09 08:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me personally, I will always chose a curvy girl over a skinny girl any day.
This is mainly down to me being a bit of a "curvy" guy myself, and have found that having someone who doesn't worry so much about their weight and can go out to eat what they like are usually more fun (and obviously easier to firgure out where to take them on a date!)
2007-07-09 08:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by no_preconceived_ideas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste time being concerned about your weight. Are you pretty inside as well as outside. Poise and confidence will attract more guys than an extra curve or two.
Look the guy straight in the eye and let him know you are special!!!! Go get 'em girl.
2007-07-09 08:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by Tim O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I rather be a little chubby then be an anorexic that's not kool and its easy to loose wait but being all skinny and stuff hating your body will cause you to die and i don't think about guys right now if your uncomfortable with the way you look. I'm not saying think about girls but I'm just saying set the guys to the side until you fell comfortable
2007-07-09 08:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by Dez 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Any guy who would only see you for what your weight is, is no one you would really want anyway. There are a lot of beautiful curvacious women out there living full lives, and with men who love them by their side (like my wife), so it isn't about the size dress you wear that matters, it's more about how you take care of yourself and being the best you you can be.
2007-07-09 08:41:56 · answer #8 · answered by mike_hughes03 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Steph, There are many real men out there that love curvy women. Me included but more important are you open minded to nerdy, shy, tall, short, heavy, skinny or are you only looking for Mr. Right.
Don't you think there are men out there asking the same thing about women?
Good Luck
2007-07-09 08:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by Big Red 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are so many guy who have size 6 or smaller.
2007-07-09 08:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by mmrriad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋