2007-07-09 01:23:56 · 38 answers · asked by sxy latina XXX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would think it was inappropriate. The 30-35 year old is old enough to know better
2007-07-09 01:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by glbenner 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hey there :D
I am in the same position as you.
I am an 18 year old female who is in a relationship of sorts with a 28 year old man. We care for each other and have mutual respect blah blah.
I don't think age matters in the slightest as long as you are happy and comfortable. If he disrespects you or does things that upset you then it's wrong, but on a moral level. Like I said, it has nothing to do with age. You aren't breaking any laws.
If you're happy and he respects you and treats you nicely, I don't see what is wrong. Just be careful and don't allow yourself to be in a position where you could potentially be hurt :D
Good luck
2007-07-09 02:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by SarcasticByNature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your hang up about this age group, do you have a quilty consions and now try to justify it by seeing what peoples response might be.
If you slept with someone in this age group than its really 2 late to ask now, if you are planning on doing so and you think it is a good idea and you really like the guy (not just a 1 night stand thing) then do what you want, you are not a child anymore and you should be able to make these decisions for yourself.
2007-07-09 01:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sonell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes if all he is offering is sex. What else does he have going for him and what on earth is a 20 yr old young woman doing with this man when she could be out doing something a bit more substantial, like saving the planet!!! lol
2007-07-09 01:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by pri1orn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as both of you understand there is a difference in generations and that the younger do it totally different to what the older understands.
The older dont want a childish partner,and the younger wants to live and party.
It does take a lot of maturity to make it work.
2007-07-09 01:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by asmoothrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its is true that love knows no age or time, but there are some exceptions. I ask this person, What's wrong with someone your age? Even though this person is of legal age, its still seems like child molestation to me. As adults, God has enabled most of us with sound minds allowing us to make serious decisions, but if you are seeking a serious relationship. This might be problems. Relationships are about growing and learning. It tends to work better with someone your age, because both parties tend to be in similiar stages in life. This older person might still view you as a child instead of their equal. This person might see as naive and they will try to use this to their advantage. Beware. God Bless.
2007-07-09 02:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jan the Beautiful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah My two best friends got married last August, she is 22 later this year and he is 44. The worst thing, they are so much in love it's sickening. They are so happy, I could puke!!
Seriously, I am stoked that my best friends are happy.And that is what important in life. Age is just a number.
2007-07-09 02:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not really a question of it being bad due to the fact that it is legal, more of why you'd choose someone of that age as oppose to your own or 25. But you can do what you see fit.
2007-07-09 01:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he's fit and single I'd go for it. Although men are at there sexual peak from 17 -25 so hope it's not a disappointment, enjoy:)
2007-07-09 01:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not bad as long as you both know what ur doin, and no-one is getting hurt. Just be careful, and make sure he's not using you, some of us guys can be right dickheads.
2007-07-09 01:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by Andy W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋