I and my partner decided to have a break from each other since yesterday because we have been having problems with our relationship.since last month we have been constantly arguing because of issues such as respect and trust.i have been going out with him for two years but know the fights have been worse and i recently slapped him durin a heated argument of which he slapped me back.so we hav decided to take a break from each other..and conclude wen 1 is ready to talk simply call the other.how shud i handle this break and how and when is best to get bak together??should we negotiate on some issues (like i feel he treats me differently around his friends(with no respect))or should i just move on with my life without him??
2007-07-08 23:55:09 · 5 answers · asked by kapatikana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, in most cases (I know of) breaks r just a beginning of the end...
Maybe u should spend some time to think of the things u miss about him & things u dislike about him - but u have 2 do this w/ a cool head... In about 2 weeks, if he doesn't call in the meantime, or if u realize that u miss what u 2 had - call him. 2 weeks should b quite enough for u 2 chill & think everything over...
Of course, the decision on comeing back 2gether is not just yours... so... relax & enjoy ur lonelines 4 a while & than c what 2 do...
2007-07-09 00:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by mallika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have not been able to work things out in the last two years, what makes you think that you can do it when you are not together?
Time to move on and find someone that respects you, and will be the right person for you.
2007-07-08 23:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking of this. MY boyfriend & I r going through this right know we talk everyday he comes home 2 eat ,shower, then he visits & leaves . i did let him stay 1 night so we could talk things didn't go like I thought they would. counseling did not help my boyfriend I let him do his thing he comes home I still get his paycheck everyweek. thats that IF U LOVE SOMETHING SET IT FREE IF IT LOVES U IT'LL COME BACK IF NOT THEN IT WAS'NT MEANT 2 BE. THINGS DO GET BETTER DAY BY DAY
2007-07-09 00:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by claysaramommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should both go to couples therapy.
2007-07-08 23:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by ~gail from Long Island 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and if it is right he will find you-do not talk to him now-
2007-07-08 23:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by sunflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋