When was the last time you went up to your Father and hugged him? Or your Mother and kissed her? When was the last time you told them how much you loved them? How wonderful and special they are. Has it been a while? A day? A week? Maybe a month? A year? Two years? You say it's been longer than that? Well what's stopping you?Go to them! Go to them right now! Tell them how much you love and care for them! How much they mean to you! Kiss and hug them, squeeze them tight and never let them go! Please it is so important that you do this while you still can. I want to share a very sad thing that just happened to my boyfriends Mom not more than 2 hours ago, and how he wishes he would have told her more times that he loved her and how much she mean't to him, but he can't, she died an hour ago, by a careless and reckless driver on her way walking home from the store, not more then 100 yards from her home she was struck and killed, and she won't be coming home tonight or ever, and that's sad!
2007-07-08 23:46:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My father died my mum left when I was 9 so I hug my kids and my wife and tell them I love them every day does that count??
2007-07-08 23:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is sad :( My father was killed by a drunk driver on his way to work...I called him about 20 minutes before he left the house, at least i got to tell him one more time that I love him...
Our family is very loving, we tell each other all the time we love one another and we are big time huggers...I noticed a lot of people are not like that...Its sad
You boyfriend an his family are going to go through a lot of pain, be there for them...Its hard when someone dies period, but when they die like this...unexpected...its a different kind of trauma in their life...I keep waiting for my dad to walk through the door....:(
2007-07-09 07:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this was so good of you to bring this to people attention...though i do know this...i lost both my parents in the last 2 years...mom left dec 31 at 3 am 2006...and at her funeral i was talking with my younger sister..and we usually always hugged each other but i did not hug her that day...i do not know why we were all upset........but i thought i would see her later....well we usually have get togethers us sisters...but this sister died 2 months after my mom died...so i know what you mean by this....let your loved ones know how you feel about them and that you do love them......i have been trying to do that ever since because as with your friends mother we never know what might happen and they will be gone....i am just thankful to god i know my dad, mom, and sister were all Christians...a couple of my sisters grand babies died....the sister that died her grand baby died the week before....we think her death was due to stress from this grandchild's death...people are just going around and wanting to work and play and not think about tragedies happening in their lives.......but they can........it is so sad to go to a unsaved persons funeral.........we all do need to show love to our loved ones and your friends.......i really do think you hopefully will get some anyway thinking about the truth in your question....thank you
2007-07-09 07:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that feeling, but thank goodness I could say that I had spent plenty of time with my mother, and told her often that I loved her. I just wished that I had not been so difficult to raise. I kept thinking of all the things I put her through, and she was always there for me.
We just don't realize how much our parents mean to us until we lose them.
2007-07-09 06:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss and your boyfriend's loss. I'm sure that his Mom knew that he loved her. Moms' can sense LOVE not only through words but, by actions. He is grief stricken and in shock.He may feel guilty that he should of done this or that but, that's a normal response to such a tragedy.
2007-07-09 07:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by Ruth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just shed a tear........ I am so sorry for your boyfriends loss and also to those close and dear to her. I hope that that careless reckless driver pays for what he / she has done......
Stay strong and stay together throught this rough time.
Also I tell my loved ones all the time so I am greatful for that.
Once again my condolenses.
2007-07-09 07:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too late for somew of us tro do stuff like that not because they are dead but because time and pain has caused too much regret that doing that will be really tough.Lets hope they hang around for a little longer
2007-07-09 09:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by sadia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so sad... I'm sorry... I really hope that wouldn't happen to my mom... I pray for her every night and I hope that it can serve as protection. I suppose it shows that I love her. About my dad... Hm... I don't know... We haven't been able to patch things up yet...
2007-07-09 06:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thanxs for sharing this and sorry for the lose!
I know for sure how important our parents are, and how much they suffered to raise us well. I am trying to do the same with my kids. Its a life cycle and as much as you are giving your parents as much as you will gain from your kids.
2007-07-09 06:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss. You are doing a wonderful thing by reminding everyone about expressing love to their parents. God Bless!!!
2007-07-09 06:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by j b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋