my guy has done some bad stuff to me,, but i have forgiven him,, forgive and forget right??
well not entierly!! my friends hate him,, they think he treats me like a piece of dirt but they dont see him when he treats me good,, only when he treated me bad..
I cant stand my friends bagging out my boy anymore but i love my girls to bits,, n i love my boy to bits,,
we have been together for 11 months now
help :(
2007-07-08 23:32:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your friends are concerned about you!!! there must be a reason why they're acting like that!!!
2007-07-08 23:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is hard to see what your relationship looks like. You are so caught up in it. People from the outside, especailly close friends may have a more un abscured look at how this guy is really treating you. Listen, they are your best friends for a reason.
2007-07-08 23:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by golsen2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think really hard...
Is the only time you mention your boyfriend to your friends when he does something bad? That may have something to do with it. In fact, that may be all they know about him, because it's all you've (consistently) told them.
Perhaps you could invite him to hang out with you and your friends to let them see that he isn't as bad as you may have made him seem.
If they still act all poopy, then it is time to make a decision... frankly, I'd be loathe to give up friends over a person who "has done bad things to me."
Hope this helps!
2007-07-08 23:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by p37ry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 08:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well good thing that you're both together for a long time now, anyway, you mentioned that your friends see the way your BF treats you badly but not seeing both of you in good times, that's it, they don't know much about the two of you, and your relationship, why not talk to them about the two of you, just a little, so they know about it....
2007-07-08 23:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by DARKSTAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive and forget the first time...after that he assumes it is acceptable. Listen to your friends.
2007-07-08 23:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by norwood 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore your friends. my ex crush had these absolutely CRAZY/STUPID/INSANE friends that i just couldnt stand, & i tried my hardest to stay the hell away from them & ignore them. but tell your friends the sweet side of your man first & if that doesnt work, well, then i guess you just cant be friends anymore
2007-07-08 23:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by Black Winter Night Sky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋