ACTULLAY MAY PARENTS GAVE ME TWO CHOICES BOTH OF THEM ARE MY COUSIONS.1ST ONE SHE IS ROUD AND PROUDY.2ND ONE CLAM AND BEAUTIFUL WITH GREEN EYES.(COLOURED EYES ARE ALWAYS MY WEAKNESS).TO WHOM I SHOULD MARRY WITH I LIKE 2ND ONE THAN WAT WILL HAPPEN WITH 1ST ONE.SOO CONFUSED TELL ME
2007-07-08 22:38:23 · 14 answers · asked by Asim Aftab 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
NEITHER...they are your family. When in doubt, you should do without!
2007-07-08 22:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by Brandi A. 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what country you're in but in the United States you can't marry relatives. Also in the United States, arranged marriages are wrong. You should be able to choose you own spouse, not your parents. We live in a free country where you are free to make your own choices. Why would you, or either of the ladies want to marry someone they are not in love with?
I can't imagine being forced to marry someone I don't WANT to be with. You just wind up hating each other and if you do stay together, because it is your culture, then you'll just be miserable, not happy. Good luck in your decision, though.
2007-07-12 04:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by kystarlyte_kystarlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live in a culture where you marriage is pre-arranged then consider your self lucky to have a choice. Ask your parents what will happen to the 1st one, and ask them to help you chose. If you have the choice then pick the one you want, and it sounds like you would like the 2nd one. Good luck.
2007-07-08 22:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by Krystal 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i think u must talk with both .
spend some time with both of them .
what we see is not always true.may be first one can be more appropriate for u.
and after that decide .
one more thing ask some personal question or some triky question which will definately help u.
2007-07-08 22:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its always better to marry a person who like you than whom do u like.
2007-07-08 22:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by Rock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think of asking them which one wants to marry you?
2007-07-08 22:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
anyone yaar
but the girl shud be from pindi ghaib
if both are from pindi ghaib then remember colored eyes are always baywafa
so go for proudy
it will be a ejnoyment as well to bring her proud down on ist night
2007-07-09 01:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by aamirtaj 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
where do you live? In the USA you cant marry your cousins.
2007-07-09 00:51:35 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2nd your choice but also consider her attitude with you
2007-07-08 22:45:56 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you marrying someone from your family? thats not normal...
2007-07-09 00:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by bcn_mimosa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont u have ur own brains to think for urself???
2007-07-08 22:49:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋