Have you ever won back somebody who finished their relationship with you...?

Question

How did you do it?

Answer 1

Yes i have...actually it was more of a 'get back at him' thing if i have to be honest. The way i did it 2 times, with 2 different men - Just act cool, like you would with a mate, whatever you do dont make it look like you're even a little interested in anythingbut plain friendship, also try and never mention about your relationship, treat that like it never happened. It makes him wonder how cool can you be after he finished with you, then he will start believing you ARE really cool, guys like girls who arent very emotional, and to him you'll seem like a 'mate'....once you are his 'mate'...it will be a matter of time (i guatantee this 110%) he will say he made a mistake and ....voila! It may sound ruthless...but thats how this world works chick...and we just have to beat them at their own game.

And dont ever admit to doing this.

And just for the record, the 2nd guy really did fall in love with me after this, even more then he was before....i just didnt love him anymore.

Answer 2

I sang this song


We were at a party
His ear lobe fell in the deep
Someone reached in and grabbed it
It was a rock lobster

We were at the beach
Everybody had matching towels
Somebody went under a dock
And there they saw a rock
It wasn't a rock
It was a rock lobster

Motion in the ocean
His air hose broke
Lots of trouble
Lots of bubble
He was in a jam
S'in a giant clam

Down, down

Underneath the waves
Mermaids wavin'
Wavin' to mermen
Wavin' sea fans
Sea horses sailin'
Dolphins wailin'

Red snappers snappin'
Clam shells clappin'
Muscles flexin'
Flippers flippin'

Down, down

Let's rock!

Boy's in bikinis
Girls in surfboards
Everybody's rockin'
Everybody's fruggin'

Twistin' 'round the fire
Havin' fun
Bakin' potatoes
Bakin' in the sun

Put on your noseguard
Put on the lifeguard
Pass the tanning butter

Here comes a stingray
There goes a manta-ray
In walked a jelly fish
There goes a dogfish
Chased by a catfish
In flew a sea robin
Watch out for that piranha
There goes a narwhale
HERE COMES A BIKINI WHALE!

Answer 3

Yes I did. I am not aware that I did anything. It all depends on what split you up in the first place. I think there is a lot of depth in people being "soul mates". We are each other's soul mates but needed a jolt perhaps to realise it and appreciate each other. We have known each other since we were 4, married, split and since 2002 have been happy together again. Good luck honey.

Answer 4

Sweetie, this is not usually the best thing to do.
We have to remember the REASONS we ended the relationship.
Most of the time these issues at the end are unresolved, so the underlying intent we have is to try to resolve , or FIX these issues by having another go-round with them.
Don't get twice burned, there are many wonderful folks out here looking for a love and faithful relationship.
Good Luck!

Answer 5

i jusrt carried on as if i wasnt bothered, he realised the mistake he had made and came running back

lookin back i wish i hadnt bothered cos he finished it again 2 months later, i walked away and havent looked back since

x x x

Answer 6

funny job sweet heart , sounds like you fell for somebody who is using you for what you are, wether that be a generous sweet girl or maybe a whore ???????????

top n bottom of it is , in this sore situation, im afraid to say , you are not loved , your being taken for a fool , and being made a laughing stock ,



sounds like you deserve better , its hard at first , it gets alot better xxx,

you will know when a man loves you , by the tears in his eyes ,

Answer 7

Never have, never will.
When its over, there is no love ever again.

FULL QUOTE ON DATING:
Its better to avoid stds and aids,
so better to have love and lost than
to never had loved before.
And sometimes its better not to date at all.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
laters,
Ric.
[That is the full quote, but other
motherfudgers screw
up my quote.]

The main point is :
that its better to learn
to be happy single than miserable dating
and stuck will sexual illnesses.
And condoms don't work, they break
so don't use-m.

Answer 8

No and I've never wanted to. There's a reason why you broke up and it won't have gone away. Move forward in your life not back.

Answer 9

yes... i didn't do anything he just realised he'd made a mistake - what he didnt realise was that i would take him back and when he thought everything was wonderful again i upped and left.

Answer 10

I proved I was worthy of them!

I guess it was just down to determination in the end.

But I guess it's down to the people and situation.