This was really happened to me.I am in love with a girl she also loves me a lot.suddenly her parents married her with another guy.But she still loves me.But she is moving with him without any happiness and satisfaction.I cant bare this pain of losing her,i cant judge myself that she is not mine.I am unable to understand how she is living with him.She says that life is going on without satisfaction.How to overcome this situation and keep my self normal.
2007-07-08 22:16:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if there's no way to get her back, you need most of all deal with the loss.
2007-07-08 22:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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His ear lobe fell in the deep
Someone reached in and grabbed it
It was a rock lobster
We were at the beach
Everybody had matching towels
Somebody went under a dock
And there they saw a rock
It wasn't a rock
It was a rock lobster
Motion in the ocean
His air hose broke
Lots of trouble
Lots of bubble
He was in a jam
S'in a giant clam
Down, down
Underneath the waves
Mermaids wavin'
Wavin' to mermen
Wavin' sea fans
Sea horses sailin'
Dolphins wailin'
Red snappers snappin'
Clam shells clappin'
Muscles flexin'
Flippers flippin'
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Boy's in bikinis
Girls in surfboards
Everybody's rockin'
Everybody's fruggin'
Twistin' 'round the fire
Havin' fun
Bakin' potatoes
Bakin' in the sun
Put on your noseguard
Put on the lifeguard
Pass the tanning butter
Here comes a stingray
There goes a manta-ray
In walked a jelly fish
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Chased by a catfish
In flew a sea robin
Watch out for that piranha
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HERE COMES A BIKINI WHALE!
2007-07-09 05:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is quite difficult coz she is already married although it wasn't her decision but it was her parents. Sometimes i don't see eye to eye on this why parents have to decide until this matter. The thing is that she is already married. You could have tried fighting for your love when they weren't married yet, but why did you allow for things to reach this point?
You think things carefully before making any plans, but i think it is up to the woman now if she really decides to come back to you and choose you.
But at this time, you should give her a chance to make up her mind without anybody influencing her.
But you should somehow be ready in case, to move on or start opening a new door.
2007-07-09 05:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by newgen_goddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you had gone dating with the girl you should have met her parents earlier. But since this has already happened, you just have to be realistic that she has married and you have to move on with your life. Try to forget her which I think takes a little time and hopefully by then, you have learned to mingle with your other friends and maybe got yourself another girlfriend. Hope that helps.
2007-07-09 05:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though, when it comes down to it, that this girl has chosen the love of her family over your romantic love. As hard as it may be to understand, she must see the rejection and anger that she would receive from her family if she didn't marry this other man as more scary than living a loveless and unsatisfied life.
You can only control your actions and emotions, not hers. So I advise, tough as it may be, that you mourn your love and then move on.
2007-07-09 05:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by Clare S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-07-09 05:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by Helpme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she had an arranged marriage? How barbaric. Anyway, love her, but move on. It is only going to bring you down. If she really wants to be with you, she will find you. Don't cease your life just because you hear she is unhappy. Maybe that is her way of holding onto the love you share, but it is not healthy for you. You may not be destined for her, so free yourself to others, or you will blindly walk through life not noticing all of its splendors.
2007-07-09 05:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by ohmom2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel! Have her leave him! Thats basically all you can do! Just be honest with her and have her leave the situation to be with you! BUT DONT GIVE UP! Shes your girl! So take her! She wants you... You want her.. Dont take no as an answer and keep going! If the love is strong enough she'll run away with you
2007-07-09 05:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by LPPX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see dear it really painfull to miss your loved one but this is real now the good thing you do to her is be away from her so she gets fit into her new life after all she was your lover she has to get the real happieness fo life if we disturb her she will not concentrate on her new life and she will think of her past life so if u get cahnce to speak her tell her that its not going to happen now its her new life and marriage come in life once so as her to spend the moment happily and slowly she will forget the past
its hard to say but this is truth she has to move on with this you have to give her a moral support so think of her and give her all maoral support dear bye
raj
2007-07-09 05:24:51 · answer #9 · answered by Raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like her parents run her life and she obviously doesn't have a strong will if she married another man.
I'd move on. If she really was in love with you like she says, she would have never married someone else. She would have given up anything for you and been with YOU... not someone else to please her parents.
2007-07-09 05:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by xeyelinerwh0rex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have u talked 2 her lately if she hasn't talked 2 u since then she's over u jus' try 2 move on!
2007-07-09 05:20:23 · answer #11 · answered by lauren c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋