my teacher told the school i have a period and i'm a guy?

Question

i'm a fourteen year old boy and i thought my art teacher was the best teacher ever he let us listen to music do what ever and then like half way in the year i had surgery on my mouth to remove a growth (like a tumor) andi didn't go to school for like two weeks because of stiches and swelling and pain and he told the whole school that the reason i missed so much school was it was that time of the month i'm a guy he told the whole school i was a girl and had a period and that was in the seventh grade and then the next year it was the 8th grade and he was saying to kids i'm gay and crap like that and i droped out because i couldn't handle everyone in the whole freaking school calling me gay and so i droped out plus my mom is sick and has been ill for the past 4 years and so that didn't help i've thought about suicede because of this **** and i need help what should i do i'm about to start the 9th grade still in the same school and i'mve talked to the princapal about this and he said he

talked to him but there wasn't like an apoligy or a letter saying sorry for making your like hell for the past two years what should i do because he does it every year help please thanks

he isn't gay he is married i think

Answer 1

If this is true, I would categorize this as extreme sexual harassment, creating an unbearable environment; I can't believe a teacher would be that insensitive, especially with adolescent boys who are already hormonally imbalanced and tend to be particularly cruel over issues of sexuality.

I would put my concerns in the form of a letter. Then I would specify very clearly what you want to see happen (an apology from the teacher at the very least, help from the counselor, etc.). And make it clear that if this doesn't happen, you will take it further.

The problem you have is that the original comments were two years ago; I understand that things have blown up since then and gotten worse for you, but it may seem strange to them that you are bringing this up now.

If you decide to write a letter and need help, I'd be glad to help. I'm an attorney, although I don't do it for a living, but I've had to write a lot of letters for things like this for my own students.

Answer 2

This is severe bullying and the teacher needs reporting and if true sacking.

Try to get a small voice recording device and get him to repeat his comments, then you have got him by the goolies.

Don't ever let people like this get you down and suicide is not the answer as you won't be there to see his downfall when he gets his comeuppance.

Be strong, live long and beat the bully.

This way he can't do anything to anyone else.

It may be well to ask around and see if others are in your situation, then get together and get justice.

Answer 3

Report him, this is bullying. How dare he make your school life hell. He is abusing his position of trust, the school board should be made aware of this. Please don't give up on school as education is important, and one bad teacher does not mean they all will be.

Answer 4

Sue... seriously its sexual harrassment and it shouldnt happen or be tolerated, no teacher should ever act that way he should be fired for it and the principle should be fired for letting it happen.

Answer 5

make up a rumour bout him, say that u like saw him been gay with som1 or something

Answer 6

maybe he was gay....and was attracted to you....so he took out his frustration on you.........if you are really brave then go back to the same school.....if not then get a transfer......talk to the priciple of your school........