i like this girl and realy want to go out with her but im scared to ask her out because i dnt want to be rejected. also she used to go out with my mate and they broke up and he hates her now. what should i do
2007-07-08 21:21:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, first check with your mate and see if he cares of you try to get with his ex, because you don't want to end your friendship over a girl. Then, ask the girl, worse comes to worse, she will say no, then you will move on, you won't gain anything, but you won't lose anything either.
Good luck. I hope everything works out for the better.
2007-07-08 21:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by ohsosweeto2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, tell your mate you plan to go out with his ex. What he says and what means could be two different things. In other words make sure you won't make him mad by dating her.
As far as dating her is concerned just ask her like you would any other girl for a date. There are two possible answers. They are yes or no. If it is no then go on about your business. You are none the worse off. If she rejects you just remember there are plenty of other fish in the sea. In fact, if it will make you feel better, if she rejects you tell her OK, it is your loss and walk off.
2007-07-08 21:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Courage . you need courageous action
You may be rejected but if you love this girl find out yourself . never mind .If you just wait she may go to someone else then you will repent whole life.
and why are you bothered about your mate hating her.
are you bonded labour of your mate. are you afraid of your mate.
Love knows no fear
Move out like a warrior an go
2007-07-08 21:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jhentee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricky situation but i suggest talking to your friend and explain how you feel if he's a true friend he'll put hos own feelings aside and help you get with this girl after all he has experience there! Good luck hope this helps!
2007-07-08 21:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by KittyKat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her first and if she says yes do it. they say bros before hoes but if that was true no man would ever marry EVER. its your life do what makes you happy not him. unless your dating him too but i doubt it.
2007-07-08 21:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by skrilla gorrilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋