Help my mom doesn't know I'm dating and I don't ho wto tell her!!!!!Help!!I really like this guy but I am really close to my mom and tell her a lot of stuff!!!!!!!HHHEEELLLPPP!!!!!
2007-07-08 20:37:25 · 8 answers · asked by gurl4life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi mom I need to share my one more intimate stuff with you ... but promise me you will not reject me or get angry or feel dejected .
I love you mom .. as you love me .. but i am sorry , I had fear if i told you this you will feel hurt. you know I got a b/f(g/f) and it all happened so suddenly. we were at this party.. or at shopping and we talked and s/he invited..
and it started
Dear mom. I am sure you will like to meet her/him . I wish to introduce him/her
Please tell me when can we fix meeting . at home or at a restaurant. ??
2007-07-08 20:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jhentee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the longer you don't tell the more she'll be shocked and upset I think. Also, she wont be as understanding or trusting b/c you've basically lied and hidden from her. You also never asked her if it was ok for you to start dating (if this is your first time) and that is a big NO NO! Talk to your mom, I'm sure she'd have an opinion, rules and want to meet your sig. other.
2007-07-09 03:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by MissyFLA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom and i are like best friends too but i could never tell her when i was dating somoeone or had a bf. BUT i first started by asking her questions about when she used to date when she was my age. Then i would tell her about guys that i had crushes on, then i would update her on the guys i liked and introduced them to her so she would see if they were worth it or not...eventually she let me date!
2007-07-09 03:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Coodles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her
if she really loves you she will understand about it but talk to her and tell her all the stuff that you need to tell her.
parents they get mad when everybody knows about that problem but they don't know!!!! they get mad cause other people get to know first than them!!!!! so try to talk to your mom an see what she says about it!!!!
***Good luck***
2007-07-09 03:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by Adrian M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're close, tell her and explain the situation to her. Depending on how old you are, she'll probably be ok with it.
2007-07-09 03:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by FordExploder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont call it dating.. say mum i met this guy who is so cool and so nice.. and we went out a couple of times .. i think u would rly like him! ;P say u find him interesting and sweet... just dont call it dating... or relationship yet or anything that sounds too serious...
good luck!
2007-07-09 03:41:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you close to her, then there shouldn't be a problem with you telling her!!!!
2007-07-09 03:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say thst your going to see your boy friend when you walk out the door.
2007-07-09 03:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋