I've been told by several men how tight I am so I was wondering if I told my new boyfriend that I'm a virgin if he'll believe me. I can totally act like its uncomfortable and even throw in some fake tears............
2007-07-08 19:13:03 · 35 answers · asked by Beautiful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't. guys hate it when you lie. but don't worry,i'm tight too even though i'm not a virgin either.hehe
2007-07-08 19:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by cookie_monster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should be truthful with him. Telling the truth to him will encourage a trusting relationship with him. If you told him that you are a virgin and you are not, it may seem okay, but you don't know what will happen in the future. One of your ex-boyfriends could talk to your current boyfriend about his intimate relationship with you. You never know men often talk about women, especially the sex.
2007-07-08 19:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why would you want to do that? You been with several men so hopefull you aren't really really young.
But don't lie about being a virgin.
He probably isn't.
If you really like him, don't lie.
If you sort of like him and he decides not to have sex with you if will not matter anyway and get with someone who isn't judging you on something he has done or is about to do himself
2007-07-08 19:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by QTP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lying to him won't make it better, so why save the worst for last, and just be honest with him. I mean would you like it if he told you he was a virgin, but he actually wasn't? Put yourself in his shoes if you were to be the one finding out your girlfriend is actually NOT a virgin. It automatically tells him he can't trust you.
2007-07-08 19:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by Awesome Angela ™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Be honest. You can get most people to believe a lie, but he'll probably find out at some time and feel betrayed.
2007-07-08 19:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by Nels N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is your bf a virgin and if you think he is how do you know that he is not telling you the same lie because he thinks your a virgin already. make sure you give the right answer if you always want to make sure that you get the truth from him or it will never work
2007-07-08 19:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by M S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah lying is not good especially if you are just starting new relationship..if you lie once then you have to lie second time to protect the first lie and lie again and again to protect the first lie then at last the lie becomes a big boom and blast .
Tell him the truth if he really ask then otherwise. i don't think you need to tell him,Not tellin him does not meant you are lying.So its okay to not to tell him,if he really ask then tell him the truth,
2007-07-08 19:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha sweeheart a guy can tell if ur not. trust me i hang out with about 20 different guys plus i have 6 brothers and we talk about everything including their sex life. lol. its better to just be up front with him about it and if he doesnt like it then screw him!!! but dnt lie to him!! and honestly most of the guys i hang out with dont like being a girls 1st unless they have been dating for like ever!! so u have a better chance of acc getting some if u tell him the truth...and sence ur already thinking about it i am guessing u want it haha!!
2007-07-08 19:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by LIL BIT!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do that?! I think it's so wrong to start off a r'ship with such an incredibly big lie. For one, there's no reason to lie and for another thing,it's just wrong. Be honest!
2007-07-08 19:16:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him the truth if he loves you and that he won't care he mite be a little mad at first but he'll get over it and theres more to it then tears. good luck
2007-07-08 19:17:50 · answer #10 · answered by Dev. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋