Ex reunion...good or bad?

Question

My Ex wants us to meet. Recently, wen speaking to him (V r on talking terms), he sed that he still loves me, n wants us to meet up again. He claimed that he wants to be close to me again n hopefully get to kiss me (even if its for one last tym)... Wut shud i do?? Btw, i hav a bf now...N he has a gf (but he doesnt mind). I feel guilty, but i love him sooo much-i always hav n always will...i know that! :-S Shud i meet him?? For old tyms sake...?

Answer 1

gal you need to get your life on track, you shouldn't go back to your ex neither should be going with your current bf, how can you go out with someones bf, remember what goes around comes around and it will surely hit you like a bomb!!!! gal why dont you stop dating for a while and think where your life is heading to before its too late!
ex boyfriends normally have power over us coz they now u very well and so use Ur weak points to get to you. my ex boyfriend used to do that and every time he would use the words i loved to hear when i was with him and id find myself back in the same trap, we would have sex then he would go back to his gal friend, n call me the next time he wants to sleep with me.
but i moved on i realized my mistakes and i realized God loves me and i dint have to misuse myself like that. 1 year down the line am happy with a bf who loves me so much and we might be getting married next year.

so please think twice

Answer 2

Sounds like your ex is a p ussy and that's an old line that people still fall for "meet up and kiss one last time" ?? hahaha come on! he has a girlfriend and doesn't mind hurting her feelings - how disrespectful. Yeah, loving someone with no respect sounds great. He's an ex for a reason. He just wants a ss. Do you like your current boyfriend? More than your ex? If you like your ex more then break up with him, hook up with your ex and move on from the whole situation as a single female, you'll find someone better. Good luck.

Answer 3

do you liket he guy you are with now? is a kiss or a one night thing with your ex worth ruining the relationship you are in now? is he just looking for a oe night thing, because really if he did love you he probably should hav tried to get you back befor ehe decided to find another girlfriend. If i was in your shoes i would say no, there is too much to be left unanswered, why all of a sudden? why is he willing to cheat on his gf, does that mean he'd do that with you too? If you do take your boyfriend with you if you dont want anything sexual happening, but if you plan on kissin or n e thing with your ex please atleast break up with your current bf to save him some pain when you say oh i cheated on you with my ex goodbye

Answer 4

Tell him, there is only one way to meet you : " Leave ur GF and then come back to me and i ll also leave my bf". If he cant then dont ruin ur life by making urself vulnurable again. it d do u no good if u meet him and then go back to ur own life without him. i can understand u love him, but just think whether u could b as normal as u r now after meeting him. its meaningless to put ur legs in two boats which are not tied together. and even he doesnt come, i think u better tell ur bf about it and leave him. its not fair to stay with one, thinking abt another one.

Answer 5

it was a guy i dated for less than two months, but he still takes the cake. i thought he was great, and to this day i think he might be mildly autistic. he's extremely intelligent, yet couldn't communicate his thoughts with other people to save his life. his dad is one of those ponytail-wearing, uber cerebral, extremely liberal university professors. i suspected his influence was a big factor. when i broke up with him he wrote me these insanely long e-mails about how he is a "technical genius" and basically he can't communicate effectively with others because no one is as smart as him.... umkay... he left angry messages that i couldn't take seriously, like when he screamed, "i understand your linguistic systems and i HATE THEM!". i wish i still had the e-mails. they were extraordinary. my friends almost cried laughing. he's seriously from another planet. a month after this went down i found out through a mutual friend (his roommate) that he'd taken the v-card of their other (gay) roommate in the shower, apparently even being the one to initiate it. he told me about it later saying it was an experiment to see if he was truly only attracted to females. he was very pleased to learn (after intercourse with a man) that "there is something unique to a female that attracts me". i could keep going.

Answer 6

If you still love your ex then you should, but it's completely unfair to your current boyfriend. There's probably a good reason as to why you guys broke up in the first place. Is it worth hooking up with your ex only to ruin your current relationship?

Answer 7

For old times sake what? To have a fling and then go back to your normal life with the other guy? What do you think you're going to get out of this? This is not going to be good.

Answer 8

First, break up with your current bf, you obviously don't want to be with him if you are thinking about someone else...that's just dirty, btw. Would you like it if your current bf was stalking his ex? Likely, not.

Then go meet him. Hopefully, you'll get back together with him and then he'll treat you like crap.

Answer 9

well you got to go where your heart is. If you love him meet him and talk. you should know how you feel about your BF by now. If he isnt the one go ahaed. If he is something special. Dont go and ruin what youve worked on.

Answer 10

hmmmm..u have a bf?
and ur thinking these thoughts?...as in you know he wants to kiss you?
and HE doesnt mind though he has a girlfriend..

okay..what does ur bf say? take him along to meet ur ex. that will be just dandy