My horse has died and i blame myself for his death and my dog just died to tonite from a infection and my parents are divorced and my mom is gettin married to a guy i hate it and somedays i wish i could just die i've cried so many tears over my horse that i have none left to shed for my dog and i don't know what to do i wish i could just like vanish
2007-07-08 18:58:52 · 16 answers · asked by Dev. 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Go in your room, get your favorite CD or album from your ipod, whatever. Listen to it and think about all the good things life has to offer. There are a lot of trials in life, and giving up on it is not the thing to do. Storms of nature pass just like the storms of life do. Sorry to hear about your pets. Maybe you can get some new ones if you feel comfortable with it. And about your future step Dad, try to get along. Find something you share in common. And if that fails, At 18 you'll be an adult and can get your own pad. But remember, Life is great, you just have to know how to withstand the storm for a short while and remember that everything will be great.
2007-07-08 19:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by HighFlyDanger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to appreciate the time that you had with your horse and dog. Unfortunately all living things die and you never know when. I seriously doubt that you are responsible for your horse's death. You will be ok, there is a period of mourning.
Luckily, you are OK and did not get injured. You need to accept that bad things happen to good people and be happy that you are able to understand this.
It is OK to be sad, but do not vanish. There are many people that would miss you, that you don't even realize.
Think about getting another horse or dog. You can save them and make a difference in their lives.
Hang in there, things will get better. Have you told your mom the truth about how you feel ? Talk to her truthfully, without getting hysterical. It might make you feel better. I'm sure that she loves you too.
2007-07-09 02:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by CommonCents 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You kick yourself in the butt and tell yourslef that in 20years will it even matter? Quit throwing the pitty party, yes your horse died as well as your dog(ive gone through both)...but it is not the end of the world...i many times wish i coudl vanish but i personaly don't want to miss all the fun times that get mixed in with all the bad times.....meds are not the answer. the only thing that can really help you is, YOU!
2007-07-09 02:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by Tom Graphics 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If only it were that simple. but unfortunatley it's not. Life is and will always be full of things that we wish wouldn't happen. It can't always be sweet and kind and fortunate. We all go through the trials and tribulations in our lives. Giving up is only the easy way out. You have to stand strong anyways and make your own way through this messed up world. We all go though it, we all have our moments of happiness or saddness. your no different then the next guy. It is in learning how to deal with life that makes the difference in how we are able to endure. Stand strong, Accept those things that we can not change, and change those things that you can. and realize the wisdom in knowing the difference. and one more thing, be thankful for the little things in life that are so much more then what we give them credit for. life, death, we all have to deal with it in one form or the other. just hang in there okay?
2007-07-09 02:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey dev,
If only Life was that easy. Well, its not and we Have to accept it as it is. Whats alive will die one day, all of us, Me, You, everyone of us. Thats nature. I understand how does it feel when everything in life is going against you. But thats exactly when our true fighter spirit comes out. Its very easy to give up n wish to vanish or die, but thats being a coward. Thats accepting your defeat. Remember, (and I say this at the cost of being called an atheist!) there is no second life, no incarnation. So this is the only Life we have. Live the most of it, Make the most of it. Live it to the fullest.
Come now, Wear your best dress, put on heavy make up and a cheap perfume, go out alone to the beach, stroll around, play in the sea, watch a movie, shout aloud, feat on a large meal, drink yourself silly n go to bed drunk.
Trust me, you'll feel a lot better.
Love,
Deep
2007-07-09 02:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by DEEP S 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry,what keeps me going is I know no matter how bad and painful life can be,when you think your at the bottom,theres always something that could be worse.Its hard but realize that these animals loved you and you should be grateful for the time you had with them.Stop blaming yourself.Everything dies at some time,thats life and theres nothing you can do to change it.Rejoice and remember the good times youve had with the animals and people that you miss
2007-07-09 02:13:18 · answer #6 · answered by stygianwolfe 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Things are rough right now. You have lost a lot. It is normal to grieve over the loss of your horse, your dogs, and the family life you had with your parents when they were together. You need to tell some one how you feel and get referred to some one trained in mental health to talk to. You need some one to help you get through all of this who is focused just on you. I really hope with time things will start to get better for you.
2007-07-09 02:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie H 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont give up on life..yeah theres hard times..yeah theres times when you just wanna give up..but those are the times you have to fight harder. you only get a chance at life once..so why waste it. if i were you. i would.......
Pray- pray every day that whatever situation you are in..that it gets better..anything is possible with God..accept God..he died for us so why not live for him...let him work in your life...i hope that you do this..i hope that he comes into your life and you start on a whole new beggining..there is so much in life to see and do..you have been blessed by god...pay it back to him.. -God is Love-
just remember this...
"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."Philippians 4:13
-spread the word
-i hope this helps..good luck in your future and God Bless!
2007-07-09 02:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. It helped me to keep a diary and write all my thoughts into it when my parents went though the divorce thing. I still keep that diary after 7 years now.... i helps to go back and read how much I've come through.
2007-07-09 02:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by Much too tired. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you need a Friend that you will always be able to depend on. One who loves you, and will never leave you or forsake you. One who knows exactly what you are going through, and can understand your needs and wants before you even ask Him. I think You need Jesus Christ as your friend.
He is my best friend. One who has been with me through all of my stupidity, and bad relationships. Good times and bad. He has guided me through his Word and strengthened me when I thought I couldn't go on any longer. He is my truest friend. If you would like to meet him, go to www.lancasterbaptist.org and scroll down to Daily in the Word link. It is full of uplifting and encouraging devotionals to help you to get to know Him.
Hope this helps.
Please don't ever give up on life. You are here for a purpose.
2007-07-09 02:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋