I have this gut feeling i should watch it and i have and i cant shake the feeling she is trying to take him from me he says he doesn't look at her like that and gets emotional when i say he should stop talking to her she calls and txt him while i am with him and she acts like she dont like me and doesnt even speak to me only when i am with him what is up with that
2007-07-08 18:48:28 · 8 answers · asked by soldout4christ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Trust is the key here. Love cannot exist without it. Without trust it is just passion, and passion fades quickly. However, this does not mean that your trust in your boyfriend will not be violated. It stands a good chance that it may(we are only humans after all), but that just means you learn a little whom you will allow to be by your side in the future. Someone very wise told me, the secret to staying faithful to your partner is 99% NOT PUTTING YOURSELF IN A SITUATION THAT YOU CANNOT CONTROL. Looks like your boyfriend is being led into that trap. The spirit is willing mind you, but the flesh is weak...
2007-07-08 19:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Starjumper the R&S Cow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually have been in that situation. Where my best friend had a girlfriend who didn't want him around me. We were best friends for years. I never saw him in that sense. If we had loved each other in that way wouldn't it we have ended up together instead of him and his gf? So what I am trying to say is don't deprive your bf from hanging out with his best girlfriend. They probably are just friends. He may resent you later and you may not have him around. If you don't have a foundation of trust then you don't have a relationship at all.
2007-07-08 19:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by D M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm. She probably doesn't like you? Like that matters or something? Yes it can be important to get a guy's friend's approval when dating him, because he's more likely to call it off with you than he is with his friends.
You on the other hand are the one in the wrong. Telling him he's not allowed to take the call of a good friend is outrageously selfish of you.
2007-07-08 18:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by spirenteh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you have to trust him if you want things to work out. If he says he doesn't look at her that way you've got to take his word for it. If he's done nothing to make you suspicious than just chill or you'll drive him away.
No one likes to feel like they are being controlled or like they are not trusted.
2007-07-08 18:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is true, and you fight it, you will lose him more than likely. If you give him a free pass to flirt and play you will hang on to him forever. No guy would give up a girl that doesn't tie him down and nag him about his friends. Trust me :)
2007-07-08 19:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jaqueline M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She want to take your boyfriend.
You should tell your boy friend to stop talking to her or it's over but then again that's a little risky...
2007-07-08 18:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might but yea he probably doesnt see her in that way. i was like that. thats how i lost my girlfriend. she thought i wanted this girl who was doing the same thing. but that girl really was trying to get me.. but dont dump him . just make him aware that it buggs you and dont make a big deal over it
2007-07-08 18:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... YEP... she's moving in, and your boyfriend is letting her... no matter what excuse he gives that she's "only a friend"
2007-07-08 18:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by vérité 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋