I have this guy friend, we'd talk and flirt and every1 thought we were a couple, we'd txt all the time when we weren't 2gether & when my phone broke, I got 8 messages from his alone on the 1st day! Anyway, I like him and I told him so (over texting, I know, mistake) & he gave me an obscure answer which I asked him to explain (again, mistake) & he pretty much rejected me w.out flat out saying so. Well, now whenever I txt him, he just won't answer me! 1st, when I was bored and decided 2 4get about the whole thing I txted "wuts ^?" and he never answered, later I txted a specific question "Wut elementary school did u go 2?" bcuz i met some new kids who i thought might know him and again he never answered, which is weird bcuz he always answers specific questions. So my question is: Shouldnt I b the 1 avoiding him and not answering cuz I was the rejected 1? Whats up w/ this? Guys, does it make sense? WHY IS HE AVOIDING ME?
2007-07-08 17:32:22 · 4 answers · asked by cambrexia 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh and, he's not like a player or anything, he has 2 older sisters and we always joke about how thats why he's such a nice guy and how they trained him never to be an asshole and not to freak out as easily as most guys, because I'm a big sister with a lil brother myself, and we'd joke abt how I'm training him to be a good boyfriend.
Oh and keep in mind, we're only 14 and just graduated eighth grade, moving into a new, bigger high school...
2007-07-08 17:34:10 · update #1
Oh and also, a little advice would be good. He's a great guy friend and I don;t want to lose him, and I;m fine being just friends, I've gotten it out of my system, but I don't know how to let him know bcuz bringing it up==AWKWARD and besides, he's not talking to me!
Ahh!
Advice?
2007-07-08 18:40:23 · update #2
Okokok, I know for a fact that he is not gay, We talk all the time and a lot of it is joking about sex and hearing him talk about girls/porn/sex I am certain that he;'s straight,
2007-07-08 19:04:44 · update #3
There's your answer. You're only 14. He is obviously too young (and not mature enough) for girls liking him
I know. I liked this girl my sophomore year of High School and she just wasn't ready for guys. She's still too scared to talk to them.
Pretty much, you scared him I think. It's not your fault, he's just not ready.
And thanks for answering my question, so I'm returning the favor. And keep an eye out for Best Answer (I still have to read them all, but yours is best so far).
2007-07-08 18:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately it sounds like since hes found out you wish to hold more than a friendship with him, he wants to sever the possibility by ignoring you. It appears he was perfectly fine (and probably pretty excited) about being your good friend, but just didnt wanna go the extra step. OR... maybe hes just really not into commitments.
2007-07-09 00:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by Coventry_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow for a 14 yr old you got a lot to say. How about TALKING to him, not on the phone or texting, i mean face to face. its harder to ignore someone in front of you.
And just maybe he only wanted a friend. Or maybe he's gay?
2007-07-09 01:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by Chris P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is avoiding you because you broke the friendship barrier. You wanted to be more, he does not. So the easy way to dump you is to ignore you.
2007-07-09 00:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋