I am gonna be away from my bf of 5 months for a few months and he is older than me so of course he is all for staying together...but i am young and i kind of want to go party...what should i do? i love him but i want to have fun.
2007-07-08 15:36:02 · 12 answers · asked by elizabeth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you truely love him you wouldn't be asking this question. Really think about this: Having some meaningless flings with random guys, or true love and a serious relationship???
Who says you can't be in a relationship and have fun? You can still go out and party, just not hook up with random guys. Basically, if you still wanna hook up with other guys, you don't really love him.
2007-07-08 15:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break it off now. You obviously have doubts and you might end up doing something unforgivable if you stay with him, i.e. cheating. So I think that it is best to break it off now, not because your going to be apart, but because you already have reservations abou tbeing in a relationship. It's not really fair to him to stay with him and lead him on.
2007-07-08 22:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him. Then you wouldn't consider leaving him just to have fun. If you want fun, then yes. leave him.
2007-07-08 22:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by Meggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and that you want to go out and have fun. If your relationship does bring you joy it is time to break up.
2007-07-08 22:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him you need some air and that you want to see different people... you're only young once
2007-07-08 22:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by hpfan123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just dont break his heart just party like you want but don't cheat and regret it.So if you want him to be faithful you should to.
2007-07-08 22:41:10 · answer #6 · answered by Hotmom1216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is older and he wants you around? That doesn't sound right. Leave him, so he can bang out someone else and you will have given him a perfect excuse, thanks dunce!
2007-07-08 22:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by sowhat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him you wouldn't even truly consider leaving him, so maybe you don't really love him and you should leave.
2007-07-08 22:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should just leave him then then make back up
2007-07-08 22:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have fun with him...
while you are away, don't cheat on him, but you have the independence of being a woman...so do what you please!
2007-07-08 22:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by horselover40821 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋