So my girlfriend told me all of these things (she never really liked the other ones, she wants a special relationship, the dude is her cousin) and it comes to find out that she did this to her ex.
He ex is a person that i trust a lot, and most of the things she told me she told him and they were lies. I thought she was different...
Is she just a player?
2007-07-08 15:32:36 · 11 answers · asked by Chris 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well dude, either she's playing you like a violin or she might be a bit off. Unless you like any of the fore mentioned, I suggest you either confront her to see what happens (maybe just for fun, see if she doesn't make eye contact or if she stutters or tends to be defensive) or just say that you don't feel comfortable with her anymore (that you feel "dirty", and ask her for soap) and start withdrawing benefits from her. There should be a reason why she's telling you this.
2007-07-08 15:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by Van 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if she is a player or not she could be but I can tell you one thing she is not worth it. Love is based on trust and communication. A willingness to be there for each other. She lied to you and obviously is not there for you. Tell her the truth that you know she lied to you and that you deserve better than her, tell her it's over. P.s. go out enjoy life, love will happen when it happens. who knows you just might find love when you are not looking for it, when you are just going out having fun with friends. thats what happened to me. love will happen when it happens so just sit back relax and enjoy life and don't waste your time on people who are not trustworthy.
2007-07-08 22:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by fire and ice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WelI I use to play guys so when it comes to a girl saying lies and all these weird things you may not believe it but she will soon tell you the truth and she may is tired of the game and wants to be in a relationship with you .
2007-07-08 22:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by Hotmom1216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a player if the guy is her ex. I just say stay out of it and if the girl talks about it further to you just say you have something to do or maybe just say lets talk about something else because you don't wanna get involved withen two people lives.
2007-07-08 22:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what your question is. If she makes you happy then give her a chance to prove herself. Hang out with her and get to know her. And until she proves herself to be untrustworthy then just accept and be glad that she wants to be with you.
If on the other hand, she makes you feel uneasy or that she is lying to you, then back off and leave her alone, and try someone else.
2007-07-08 22:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by sensei ronald j.f. panlilio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I really believe this girl is bad news, you relationship is a prime example of a "toxic" relationship. I think you deserve someone WAY better than her. I'm sorry if that sounds rude.
God Bless.
2007-07-08 23:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by Alayna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, if she's telling you lies then she's not worth it.. relationships only work with trust and obviously there's no trust.
2007-07-08 22:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by Blythe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's a very creative and skillful liar. And if she made you think she was someone different, that's even more clever. I would stay away from someone like that...
2007-07-08 22:38:48 · answer #8 · answered by Maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her ---- her cousin what does that tell you the type person she is ------ tells her x the same thing she has told you ----------------- dump her ----get a new start a new ---
2007-07-08 22:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it... she'll say anything to get to you.
2007-07-08 22:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋