Nothing makes me satisfied.
1) I thought that having all my courses at university A+ s will make satisfied and I really did that I took 8 courses and I got A+ in all of them but this didn't make me satisfied.
2) I tried masturbation but it didn't work.
3) I am actually muslim and a lot of people advised me to be closer to God and that this is the best way to be satisfied but I am really shy to face him. How can I be closer to God if I masturbate and I know that masturbation is banned in my religion? How can I do that if I spend at least 3 hours everyday listening to music and I know that music is banned in my religion. sometimes I feel that I just want to have sex with somebody and sometimes I have a strong desire to drink alcohol. I love a Jewish man and I know that I can not marry him because muslim women can not marry non muslim men.
But I love him. I pray but I am not sure if God accepts my prayer. I am lost and I don't know what to do.
please help . Thank you.
2007-07-08 14:37:47 · 8 answers · asked by Mimi 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I can not marry that man. Even if I oppose my religion, my parents will not accept that and they may disown me. I am serious in that. He actually treats me as if I was his sister he never talked with me about marriage so I am not even sure if he loves me in the same way I love him. I also know that jews can not marry non jews according to the 613 commandments and I just afraid of talking with him about that.
2007-07-08 14:59:07 · update #1
Hmmm. Desires will never be satisfied. When you get what you want you realize you are empty handed.
Happiness is getting desires away, just living with what you have and with what you are. Living right here right now, not craving about the future. You will realize you don't need to satisfy anything.
2007-07-08 14:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by cesar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take some quiet time. Go outside for a minute. Gaze at the stars and contemplate things. Yes,I'm a dork but it always helps me. Oh and if your god really loves you he'll accept your choice of man to marry.
2007-07-08 14:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Christ died for your sins that He might deliver you from them.
He came not for the righteous but for sinners.
He died to set you free, if the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.
Can any show that infinite degree of love and mercy that He has shown you?
Can the infinite God not satisfy you?
If He has spared nothing for your good and salvation can you sleight that? Can you not trust Him?
What are you waiting for? Seek Him.
Examine the claims of Jesus Christ and see.
When you are delivered from self and truly know God, nothing satisfies as loving Him and pleasing Him and He withholds no good thing from those that seek Him.
Taste and see that the Lord is Good.
2007-07-08 14:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by Judd M 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i would say first you need to realize that sexuality and religion are seperated by human hormones which are also god given. did nt he say go forth and multiply, ? did he also say that orgasm is a sinn, when even between people that love eachother? how is a child born without a certain lust between two people? should the sperm be delivered on a spoon? duh! your problem with masterbation seems to come from your religious beliefs. its nothing more than self reliefe of tension! nothing to be ashamed of! try again and enjoy!
2007-07-08 14:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by pszch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage should be about love, not religion. Maybe you would feel satisfied if you married him anyway.
2007-07-08 14:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religion can poison anything, even happiness. Don't let it happen to you or you will remain unsatisfied for the rest of your life.
2007-07-08 14:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by liberty11235 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a contract between a man and a women...
God has nothing to do with it...
2007-07-08 14:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pray about it. Leave it to our Lord and Savior. He will fill the void.
2007-07-08 14:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by Nina, BaC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋