Okay, so am i supposed to go to this picnic?

Question

For over a year, my grandparents and I haven't talked because of an argument we had (very complicated). Recently, I recieved a letter in the mail talking about all of the troubles they have with the dog passing, and my 91 year old great grandmother. At the end of the letter, she mentioned a picninc they were having to celebrate me and my grandmothers birthdays together because they are 4 days apart. So, I called her up and asked what time I was to be expected and stuff. She was all somber and sounded like she couldnt give a crap, but in all actuality said she was waiting on my grandfathers mother to basically RSVP. I told her to call me back to let me know so I could arrange my work schedual. Here it is, a week and a half later and I still have to reply. I left a message 2 days ago and there is still no reply. I am getting pretty ticked off because I am making an effort to go to this and am getting nothing in return! I dont know what to do!? I feel I should make right and catch up

Answer 1

well dear I guess that you should go no matter what, theer family.
family are always your best friends even if you don't know it. especially elder people they sometimes show things and do things that don't really express there actual thoughts.
plus you doing the effort and trying makes you a great person your the one thats doing the good job so keep it up and trust me at the end of the day you'll have done good

good luck

Answer 2

Yes, you really do have to go and yes, you will be glad you did. Maybe not right away, but eventually you will. Your grandmother may be busy so is there someone else you can check in with to get the details? Can you get the entire day off? That way you can relax before the picnic and take yourself out for a comforting chocolate shake (or something stronger) afterward. Or, who knows, you may end up talking to your family and getting everything worked out and the day will just fly by. Good luck.

Answer 3

pass the event. will just make you angry