I just started going out with this guy and I really like him and on the first date he tried to take my shirt off and i let him and we had sex, but I don't want to and i'm not ready. What do i do? i don't want to tell him this becasue I'm afraid that he won't like me anymore. help. what do i do?
2007-07-08 12:27:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Explain to him that you think that you rushed into things on your first date and you want to ease back a bit. Tell him that you still like him but just dont want to rush into things to quickly just yet.
2007-07-08 12:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen carefully: Any guy worth having will understand your feelings and wait for you. If he leaves on the basis that you won't have sex with him, he isn't worth your time. As you look around you, it will be difficult to believe what I say is the truth, but it absolutely is...and sticking to that principle may save you from being with a lot of knuckleheads in the process until you finally figure that out for yourself.
2007-07-08 19:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Afraid he won't like you?
Was it YOU he was thinking of when he was taking direction from his member?
The guy has probably other women to call when you don't give it up. Sounds like a great guy to kick to the curb. No matter how cute or charming he is, he is a
BOY and has years to mature before he can be considered a guy worthy of your intimacies.
2007-07-08 19:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already let him so now he thinks he can get it whenever, because you let him do it the first time he tried without making him stop... let him know that you arent ready and you want to get to know him better! Good Luck! =) if worse comes to worse break up you'll find another!
2007-07-08 19:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by Lil Shorty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes not gonna like you because youre not ready, then hes not worth your time anyways. just tell him that you got caught up on yalls first date and you want to slow things down. good luck <3
2007-07-08 19:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you know in your heart your not ready emotionally to have sex. If he doesn't respect that and doesn't want to wait, dump his ***, b/c he's not the right guy for you.
2007-07-08 19:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by Molly A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you want him to like you by having sex..anyone can have sex? a good person respects others decisions.he didnt even ask.thats disrespectful.LEAVE HIM
2007-07-08 19:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋