2007-07-08 12:06:30 · 21 answers · asked by #X2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
attentiveness to your partner's needs helps, but even with that
everybody doesnt fit every body the same(if you get my meaning). there were some girls who felt i was magnificent, a few i knew i was terrible with and most i knew were fair and the middlin. (i'm refering to my performance and satisfaction of the girl/woman). thing is, i did generally the same with all. so in my opinion its all about the 'fit' in more ways than one. hope that helps.
2007-07-08 12:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by dwayne j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon, man, wake up. There isn't any definite 12-step plan I could give you to make you please a woman. If you're good, she'll let you know. And if you suck, you should be able to tell and improve on it. Never ask a woman if you are good in bed because she'll never say, "Aw man, you were garbage in the sack! Just awful!" If she ever says that, she'd be dumped.
Basically, make it all about her. Do whatever you can to please her. Do what positions she likes, go down on her, be plenty seductive and use as much foreplay as you can stand. Don't be a little wuss between the sheets, either. Don't go super easy thinking a girl will just break in half because you're a bit rough. And try to last longer than five minutes. I know, I know, some people have a little problem with that, but do whatever you can to at least go 10 or more. If you can't get her off, at least you can say you pleased her for a decent while. But don't go too long, either. Some girls tire after so long.
2007-07-08 19:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by SilentShouter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Experience
2007-07-08 19:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not being kinky, for sure. People that need kinkiness aren't into sex but kinkiness.
A good lover will be playful, tender, passionate, and will want his or her partner to experience as much delight in the act as he or she does. It is a matter of caring.
2007-07-08 19:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by henry d 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good at sex means your partner is satisfied. Every time I've heard someone talk about a good partner, it's usually about how many orgasms they have, or about how intense they were.
2007-07-08 19:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is all about who is giving it and who is receiving it....and then they can define the meaning of GOOD SEX vs BAD SEX....
2007-07-08 19:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when both the ppl enjoy it. better sex comes when you have been with each other for a while because you both know what you like. experience is also making everything good...
2007-07-08 19:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by Elisabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can satisfy your partner, you're good at sex. The End.
2007-07-08 23:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by StarlightRedemption 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an individual thing, depending upon the person you are with. If the two of you are happy in that department, then there you go.
2007-07-08 19:10:46 · answer #9 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone that knows what to do, when to do it, how to make it feel good, and doesn't just lay there like a dead fish.
2007-07-08 19:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋